Linda Parelli shares......

"Because I said so!"

How many times have you heard this?

How many times have you said it?

Probably a lot.

Authority figures love to use these words to drive home the need for you to do or learn or accept something just “because.”

But rarely does this work out the way it’s planned. Because getting your way through domineering language never creates the lasting transformation you want. Instead, you want to offer correction, instruction in a constructive, positive way that builds up rather than tears down.

This so applies to authorities like bosses and teachers. Some are wonderful, always working to build confidence as well as knowledge, while others are domineering and belittle their students to make them feel stupid...

It’s true for training horses too. Either you are building your horse’s confidence or you’re ruining it.

My horse, Hot Jazz is naturally very introverted, unconfident and insecure so I make building his confidence #1 so he can perform to his best as my partner.

And I have other horses whose self-confidence is not at all a problem, in fact they love to argue!

But they are fragile as learners and that’s where I need to be careful with them, so as not to knock out confidence as a learner.

And learning is such an uncomfortable place for most people too. As a learner you are not good at what you’re trying to do... so it’s natural to feel stupid, incompetent, unconfident.

In fact, your confidence can be so shattered as a learner that it ends up defeating you your whole life. Instead of being excited and curious about learning new things, you shrink back into your comfort zone... and stay there!

Not all leaders and teachers see it as their job to inspire confidence in you, they just want to move your forward or share what they know.

At some point you need to recognize this, let it go and then get to work on yourself.

Hmmm... I guess that’s why this is called personal development, right?!

Linda Parelli

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O​ff to the Races....Working on this new Arabian Racehorse sculpture in many ways is like training and preparing a horse to reach its peak perfection. Minor changes and refinements make all the difference to the finished bronze or a racehorse's final performance.
Anne's Arabian Racehorse is shown here in the original clay as a work in progress captures the essence of Arabian Horseracing.. Once the original is completed it will be finished in bronze, at this scale and the equestrian bronze sculpture will also be available as a life size bronze sculpture.
Custom options. Whatever scale you can have your bronze racehorse finished in any colour, with the jockey's silks finished in your colours​.​

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Arabian Horse Sculptures by J. Anne Butler
Bronze Arabian Filly Sculpture, 63" (160 cm) high
​"Pure living art , this sculpture is so Amazing.....I wish we could breed foals like this on our farm"...........
​Arabian Horse Owner & Breeder
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Arabian Horse Bronze Sculptures.
Sculptures in bronze..The Arabian Horse, a fundamental cornerstone of Bedouin culture, is the subject of legend, myth and folklore. Celebrated the world over Anne brings her passion for the Arabian horse to life through her incredible bronze sculptures.
“The Legend” shown here as a “work in progress “, will be created in the finest bronze. No detail is too insignificant Anne’s pursuit of perfection. “The Legend” when completed will be offered globally with the options of your choice of bronze patina colours presented on a riven granite base. Suitable for the private collector “The Legend” will also be the perfect presentation piece for that special individual or to celebrate a unique occasion.
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