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Pls hide my identity i am a lady in my late 20's,i've bin dating a guy for d past 8 months now, we started having sex some few months ago but i discovered that my man is not the type of man i want, he is not good sexually like my ex. Whenever we have sex, he usually release in a minute and his dick will finally cum down. pls what will i do? please visit www.nairabook.com

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I have been with my partner for two years and we are talking about getting married. But, he says he won’t commit himself to me (or anyone) unless there’s a firm deal in place about how often we make love.

His marriage and last relationship ended because both women lost interest in sex. He says he wants an undertaking that we would have sex at least twice a week, unless one of us is ill or away.

I hate the idea of sex becoming a duty rather than a pleasure. Shouldn’t love be unconditional? please visit www.nairabook.com

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There is always some scepticism when it comes to getting married by the Arya Samaj way because this institution is being used as a convenient get away from the parental nods and social opposition.

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It is said that the marriages are made in heaven. However, being an inalienable part of the society and to provide social stability, the institution of marriage is regulated as per the laws of the lands. These laws ensure that the marriages are conducted as per the acceptable norms of the times and by using the just and fair means.

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There can never be day without night, joy without sorrow nor spring without winter.- Zula Bennington Greene.

We vow to live for happiness and when bad things happen in our marriage or individual lives we tend to question our creator why me, why now? It's not always that when bad things occur in our lives are the results of our own doing. No, it's simply the principle of there is time for everything, see from the book of Ecclesiastes 3 v 1-8.

So it's important to understand that if bad things happen to others they can also happen to us, and yes we are special and unique to ourselves and our soulmates but not immune to life's tragedies. Hence we take out life, car and any other insurance cover for in case of need. But sadly there is no insurance for pain, loss, disappointing, dissatisfaction and so on. And we can never be fully prepared for these events because their unexpectancy.

It's important to base our relationships in our marriages on the relationship we should be having with God, striving to understand his will (Rom 12 v1-2). We should understand that suffering produces endurance and endurance produces Character which produces hope (Rom 5v 4-5). All in all am trying to say we should be on guard of our faith in our relationships, feed it and care for it so that it cares for us when we need it most. So in sunny days we should labour for our faith to grow and mature in God so that when it rains that faith will helps us to endure, show our character and sustain us until the sun comes up again. God is always there and equips us daily we should find him and make him a source of our lives in our marriages. Stay Blessed.

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Principles and Boundaries - great combination for life!!!

It's evidently challenging to have a balance in every area of your life. Sometimes you may be good at this but lacking in that. You might be good in relational areas but struggling in other areas like finances, or good in finances and other areas but struggling in relational issues. Life may seem huge and frightening at times, but your own life can be well managed if you focus on it more than others, even better when you focus on those areas which are of great importance. Do not always attend or respond to what makes the loudest noise, but go for that which needs your attention at the time. Sometimes you don't need to be hands-on everything in order to create a balanced life, you just need to put principles in place and they will hold a strong foundation for you, and barriers will prevent unwanted bugs such as stress, invasions, depression, destructions, disruptions and confusions.

A balanced life is built on principles and boundaries, without the two you will have difficulty in keeping yourself together, and you will be tossed to and fro like someone with no sense of identity or responsibility, and at the end you will break-down, go into isolation and feel like life is meaningless. Sometimes it will make you feel like the whole world is on top of you, your marriage not working, in-laws becoming a pain, things not going well at work, job becoming more demanding, family not understanding or supporting you, kids driving you crazy, hubby/wife acting crazy and seemingly not supporting you enough and etc. Sometimes bad things happen at the same time, you fix this side and another breaks up, you close this leak and another starts, and in your attempt to fix everything you get so drained and tired. When such time hits your camp, don't react but revisit your principles and boundaries, 9 out of 10 you will find that the principle or boundary pertaining to that particular area is broken or shaking.

Remember that when you are grounded in Godly principles and boundaries, a well-balanced life is preordained. Let God's word handle those battles for you, let Him carry those burdens and challenges, just put His principles and use Him as a boundary around your life, and see how peaceful your life will be even in the midst of Isaiah 26:3 says: "You will keep him in perfect peace, Whose mind is stayed on You, because he trusts in You."

T. Maatjie
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