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Mother - have read different blogs describing the greatness of Mother. Infact i respect and adore my Mom. If she was not there, i am no where today. She infact gave me birth twice. One when i was in her womb and second when i was facing the adversities of life, to stand  UP tall.

I want to look at Being a Mother from a different perspective..From a Kids perspective. Allow me to do it.

Every Mother on this Planet strives for her Kids well being..Inside of that, she might be harsh,pushy,strict,loving,understanding and also funny..What if the kid misunderstands his Mom not to be loving and caring? 

 Mother is a person who is the kids first Teacher. She takes care of him, puts him to sleep, change diapers when hes a toddler, brings good clothes and feels happy looking at her mirror in him.At every stage, feeling proud and encouraging  his abilities how ever big/small. As the baby grows, She teaches him to discriminate between Good and Bad, takes pain in arranging the best food for her kid, plays with him, make him socialise, make him independent, strives to establish a bond with others, a image of his own, treats his friends, takes him to all the classes the kid wish to learn,always dreams of her kids being better to her and ensures to take steps in right direction to the best of her abilities, always plans for better avenues on how to develop his abilities better, which food to give so that he can cope with his activities, personal life trainning, helping him to win, Supporting him when he fails, motivating him that He CAN, being like a shadow to him for his growth at the same time giving him the much wanted space within the boundaries of her perspections which are Good to her. In a word, from the time a baby is born, a mother dedicates considerable chunk of her life towards her kids wellbeing.

In return what does she expect..A Smile..A Hug and  love.  Does she want to sleep on his success - NO. Does she get additional crowns if everyone praised the kid or the kids stands first in any activity - NO. Does she get any attention or success because of the kid - may be but thats limited to the initial push mother would have given the kid. Does she get any brownies for being harsh on the kid - NO. Does the mom feels happy for being strict to the kid - No. Does she feels happy if the kid gets hurt - No. Dont she bleed inside looking at the kid who’s crying over a failure while she puts a motivational speaker mask to her kid..YES. Don’t she feel suffocated if her kids get insulted or bullied - YES. Don’t she have sleepless nights if she gets to know the kid is having tough time with life - YES. Does she feel insulted to get her kid trainned  on a skill that she doesn’t  know - No. Does she feel shy to tell something she don’t know or want to learn from her son- No.

What if, the kid..after learning everything from his mother..starts insulting her, hiding truth from her,  answers her back,yells at her, talk to his friends that his mother don’t love him and the kid don’t care for her? What if the kid, feels his mother don’t know anything or she’s not respectable!

My anguish is..Is there no break to all such words from her own kids? Is being strict for his own good is bad, is being pushy on him for his good health a blunder..

A gentle plea to all .My 2 cents..Your Mom is a special symbol for selfless and Love! She has her own perceptions of parenting and dreams of how to shape her kids! She may be wrong or right! A point note worthy to consider is She’s doing IT JUST FOR YOU! She wants to see you happy..She want to see you Succeed! She want to see you being a role model for other..Well, you may say..Its her expectations , i Dont want it and she forces me on to that..Hold ON..Pause..think a sec..Are u operating from your comfort Zone? If Yes, then she has every right to Push You as she’s the one who knows your real capabilities...

Remember, if she would not have pushed you to walk while you were u think u can walk on your own today..if she would not have pushed you to manage on your own either at eating,dressing or expressing..wud you be doing all that you are doing today?

Understand your Mom, Respect her eagerness for you but don’t sideline her or hate her once you are at a decent place to Judge her ..Agree or Disagree..there were no Hidden Motivates than your wellbeing behind each of her step!

If you have come till here , A Big ThankYou for your time. A humble request on behalf of nSmiles. Thank Your Mom for her precious Contribution in your Life and give us the comments on how she felt. Might help as inspiration to spread our Grattitude to our MOMS.

Maa..Tujhe Salaam!!!


Believe in Yourself 

There may be days when you get up in the morning and things aren’t the way you had hoped they would be.

That’s when you have to tell yourself that things will get better. There are times when people disappoint you and let you down.

But those are the times when you must remind yourself to trust your own judgments and opinions, to keep your life focused on believing in yourself.

There will be challenges to face and changes to make in your life, and it is up to you to accept them.

Constantly keep yourself headed in the right direction for you. It may not be easy at times, but in those times of struggle you will find a stronger sense of who you are.

So when the days come that are filled with frustration and unexpected responsibilities, remember to believe in yourself and all you want your life to be.

Because the challenges and changes will only help you to find the goals that you know are meant to come true for you.

Keep Believing in Yourself!

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Wondering, how to set goals, effectively?

Does it help to have goals / purpose in once life?

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Passing the Buck :

There is a oft repeated story which has been said since times immemorial..The story of a rich traveler belonging to upper strata , traveling all alone in a deserted stretch, only to meet some unfortunate accident...Many of his ilk whizzed past, too much in a hurry to stop and help him until there came a Kind man, poor in wealth but rich in heart ..he rushes to the aid of this stranger, saves the Big shots life ..In Gratitude, The big shot tries to reward the poor stranger by providing a shelter n a piece of land ..The stranger refuses the reward with a smile, tells the big shot that He is a wandering gypsy and has no use for riches ..what he needs is in his satchel ..he tells the Big shot that if he wants to really express his gratitude ..Then the bigshot should pass the buck..Inspired by the travelers words, The big shot turned a new leaf and became a philanthropist building Hospitals, Schools ...One act of Kindness lead to a widening ripple wherein the whole community benefitted...So is nSmiles .. we are committed to spreading happiness and a smile, A friend in your pocket who usher in moments of sunshine dispelling your dark moods ... We believe in Passing the buck, passing the happiness, sharing our joy and expanding the circle of happiness..
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