Since this pretty much touches on just about every category, I've decided to place it in "general debate".
As I study life and mankind deeply, it has begun to fascinate me how much a single secret, which isn't really a secret at all, may be causing all of the turmoil of mankind. What's the little secret?
That men, in general, and I do mean the vast majority, are inadequate at sexual intercourse. And, the effect on mankind and its future is paramount. And, that it is a remediable issue, once we face it.
Not that men need to be inadequate. Alot of it has to do with culture and training. It's just that it is such a 'secret' that no one is willing to talk. Like no one wants to admit it's true. It's probably a good thing that gay marriage was just ruled legal in the U.S. because that leaves at least one, somewhat, rational outlet for all of the men who suck as sexual intercourse and, also, an outlet for all of the women that decide they are tired of putting up with the inadequate sexual intercourse provided by most men. There are better ways. but "the secret" continues to hide it from us all.
Some people seem to be waking up to the fact. But, sadly, most think it is just them, not the vast majority of men that are inadequate at sex. They think there is something wrong with them rather than the setup. And, that there is nothing that can be done about it.
Just think about how much this could mess with a man's psyche and tell me there's not a correlation with all of mankind's trouble.
I guess there are some men that can last a long time, but I'm not sure. So, if you are a man and can regularly last, let's say, 15 minutes or more at sexual intercourse, please leave a note below.
This has to be the single most important issue for mankind. It explains all of the weird behaviours over the ages, especially all of the quirky behaviour towards women, all of the suppression and repression of women throughout the ages. All of the bizarre crimes and religious beliefs that treat women badly. As if there is the fear that some woman might speak up and say, "guys are terrible at sexual intercourse". So, we continue to not face the issue. And, now, when making babies is becoming less and less important in the scheme of things, the act of sexual intercourse with an inept male is becoming less and less desirable. Women don't need sex the way men do, so why put up with it, if it's not good? We should get over ourselves and fix this problem. Not with surgery, pills, therapy, or voodoo. But, with applying our intelligence to figure out how a man can last long at sex. There is no doubt about it. It is possible. I'm sure most every male has experienced the rare occasion when it will just last and last and last. We just have to make it evident how to do that at will.
Hmmm, the evidence. Let's see, the opposition to gayness by those who oppose it. Is this just there own acknowledgement that sex between men and women, on the whole, is not up to snuff? There are plenty of studies (Mckinsey studies for instance, as well as Masters and Johnson), by the way, that state that somewhere between 30% and 75% of men cannot last longer than 2 minutes, depending on the study. And, keep in mind that most of these so-called studies depend on answers from those participating in the study, not clinical evidence. So, what is the percentage that can last 15 minutes? The poor state of most marriages is further evidence. It is often claimed that finances are usually the issue, though, there are studies that show that inadequate sex is most often the culprit. Really? Look at the number of rich people that get divorces.
How many of the aberrant pursuits of humans have to do with substituting some obsession, such as the obsessive pursuit of money, power or fame, for the inability to satisfy sexually?
I truly believe that ridding ourselves of this "secret" could change mankind drastically for the better. How much? Let your imagination run with it and you will see what I mean.