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The Quranic Antidepressant
by Raiiq Ridwan

Tough times come in the life of every human being, young or old, rich or poor, king or slave. And tough times, more often than not, make us who we are.

In fact, tough times (and learning to deal with them) help our true nature emerge. For example, during bad times a really “nice” person might show complete impatience and displeasure at the will of Allah, whereas a not-so-nice person might actually turn towards Allah in times of need, bringing about a change in his life that puts him among the pious.

The Way Out of Depression

In recent times depression and sadness have been rife in the Earth. We have more than ever before but we’re more depressed than ever before. Anti-depressants are fast becoming the most prescribed drug, suicide is high, and morality has gone to an all-time low. The Messenger used to say, The best speech is the speech of Allah, and the best of guidance is the guidance of Muhammad [peace be upon him].

Surah Duha

A man who is depressed, sad, or grieving requires the nurturing and caring of a well-wishing soul more than he needs the pill that alleviates his symptoms for a little while. Who better to speak to you to calm you down than Allah? And which better way but the way of the messenger? No human being suffered more than him, and it was at one of the saddest points of Mohamed’s life that Allah  revealed Surah Duha.

The Messenger has just started giving the message to his people who were mocking and making fun of him. At that time revelation stopped for six months and their mockery and slandering just increased as they said things like, “No revelation today? Your Lord surely hates you now!”

Wake Up and See the Sunshine

So often do we not feel that Allah really hates us? He must hate us for all the pain we get, right? No— the answer comes!

By the morning brightness! [Quran, 93:1]

Your life was all hustle and bustle like the morning brightness! It was bright and sunny before, and don’t worry, it still is today! Wake up, look at the sunshine, look at life around you— it’s not all doom and gloom.

And by the night when it grows still . . . [Quran, 93:2]

Yes, a depressed life is like the stillness of the night; nothing moves, nothing seems to be going forward. But what comes after the stillness of the night? The bright morning! It was a bright morning only hours earlier, and another bright morning is coming! Its okay, don’t worry, good times are ahead. Get some sleep.

Allah Loves You and Has not Deserted You

Your Master has not said goodbye to you nor does He hate! [Quran, 93:3]

Your Master has not even said goodbye, so don’t worry! Wadda’a in Arabic is a loving goodbye. Your Master has not even lovingly said goodbye to you and doesn’t “hate.” Still not impressed? Look at how Allah gives you evidence that He doesn’t hate you or that He hasn’t said goodbye to you.

Things Will Get Better!

And the future will be better for you than the past. [Quran, 93:4]

Look forward. After bad times come good, and after pain comes ease. And if not, then the believer knows that after death comes paradise. Yes, it’s painful, but hold on, the future will be better!
Your Master will give you so much that you will be pleased. [Quran, 93:5]

Don’t worry, be patient. A time is coming that Allah will give you so much that you will be pleased. For many of us in this world, if not then at least in the hereafter in sha Allah! Imagine all that you wanted. Your wildest dreams that you know will never come true, Allah will make them all come true in paradise. You still need proof right?

Remember What He’s Already Saved You From

Did he not find you an orphan and shelter you? [Quran, 93:6]

Many of you were orphaned once upon a time, either you lost your father or both father and mother. But didn’t Allah help you out of it? Aren’t you better now? What about us with both parents? Were we not helpless and small babies, and didn’t Allah give us parents as a shelter? Or maybe uncles and aunties? Or brothers and sisters? Did Allah not give us a shelter?

And He found you lost(or searching) and guided you. [Quran, 93:7]

Were we not lost and wandering in the ocean of misguidance once and Allah guided us? Were we not searching for happiness everywhere (some of us still might be) whereas it was in the guidance of Allah? Ask Allah (swt) to guide you through man. Look what He did for you before, is He really going to forsake and bid you goodbye?

Remember His Generousity to You

And He found you in need and satisfied your need? [Quran, 93:8]

How many a times have we needed something and it was satisfied by Allah ? We needed parents to take care of us and Allah gave that to us. We needed food and Allah created the world in such a way that we can extract food. We needed help and Allah created someone to help us. We needed and He satisfied? Are you yet not convinced that Allah is going to help? If you are, now time to take action. What do you do?

So do not be harsh with the orphan. And do not turn away the one who asks for help. [Quran, 93: 9]

In short, get active in the community. Help those who are in a worse condition than you are. That will humble your heart, take your mind off your own problems as you focus on others’. It will make you a stronger man and you will also be reminded of the bounties of God in your life and you will thus be grateful. Did I say grateful?

Talk About the Blessings of Your Master

Any of those people writing books on “being happy” or on “positive thinking” will tell you to look at the good side of life. This is exactly what Allah  prescribes, just that He did 1400 years before today in the Quran and also in previous scriptures. Talk about the blessings Allah  has given you. You’ve whined and complained enough. Now talk about how much He’s given you and thank Him for it. When was the last time we thanked Him for our eyes? For good skin? For not having a stomach ulcer? For the immune system?

Talk about the blessings of your Master— therein is peace.

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Say, "Indeed, my prayer, my rites of sacrifice, my living and my dying are for Allah, Lord of the worlds.

[Interpretation of the meaning, Quraan - 6:162]
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💦💙 LOVE THE POOR 💙💦

“You will not attain righteousness till you spend in charity of the things you love.”
(Qur’an, Chapter 3, verse 92.)

The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: "O God, grant me life as a poor man, cause me to die as a poor man and resurrect me in the company of the poor." His wife asked him why he said that, and he replied: "Because (the poor) will enter Paradise (before) the rich. Do not turn away a poor man even if all you can give is half a date. If you love the poor and bring them near you God will bring you near Him on the Day of Resurrection."
(Al-Tirmidhi, Hadith 1376)

The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: "If you love the poor and bring them near you. . .God will bring you near Him on the Day of Resurrection."
(Al-Tirmidhi, Hadith 1376)

The Prophet also said: "The people before you were destroyed because they inflicted legal punishments on the poor and forgave the rich." (Sahih Al-Bukhari, Volume 8, Hadith 778)

Coming generations will learn equality from poverty, and love from woes.
~Kahlil Gibran~


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Our Prophet Mohammad peace be upon you We really love you 💖
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ALHAMDU LILLAH that ALLAH made me trust Him 
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Love and Hate is for the sake of Allah!

Aboo Anas Hamad Al-’Uthmaan said:

“The evil of the Jews and Christians is open and clear to the common Muslims; as for the people of innovation, then their harm is not clear to every person… This is why the Scholars see that to refute the people of innovation takes precedence over refuting the Jews and Christians.” [Zajarul Mutahawwin, p. 96]

Aboo Haatim Ar-Raazee (d. 264) said:

“A sign of the people of innovation is their hatred of the people of narrations.” [Ibnut-Tabaree in As-Sunnah, 1/189]

Imaam Al-Awzaa’ee (d. 157) said:

“Adhere to the narrations from those who have preceded, even if the people reject you, and beware of the opinions of men, even if they beautify it with speech. So indeed the affair will become clear (for others), while you are upon a straight path regarding it.” [Bayhaqee in Al-Madkhal (no. 233) with an authentic chain of narrators]

Imaam Al-Awzaa’ee (d. 157) said:

“So make yourself patient upon the Sunnah, stop where the people stopped, speak with what they spoke with, and refrain from what they refrained from. And follow the path of your Righteous Predecessors (Salafus Saaliheen) for verily, sufficient for you is that which was sufficient for them.” [Al-Hijjah by Ismaa'eel Ibnul-Fadhl, 6/a-b]

‘Abdullaah Ibn Mas’ood said:

“Follow and do not innovate, for indeed you have been sufficed, and every innovation is misguidance.” [Saheeh. Reported in Ahmad in Az-Zuhd p. 162]
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MASJID AL QIBLATAYN

It is clear from the name of this mosque that there is a connection between it and the Muslims’ direction of prayer called as Qiblah in Arabic.

It is located in the south west near the valley of Al-‘Aqeeq and above slightly high land. It is about five kilometers away from the mosque of the Prophet (PBUH) in the north-west. It has undergone renovation many times.

Quran

At first, the Muslims prayed facing towards the direction of Bayt Al-Maqdis (Jerusalem), then, praying towards Jerusalem was abrogated by the Divine order to pray towards Al-Masjid Al-Haraam when Allah The Almighty revealed:

"We have certainly seen the turning of your face, [O Muhammad], toward the heaven, and We will surely turn you to a Qiblah with which you will be pleased. So turn your face toward Al-Masjid Al-Haraam. And wherever you [believers] are, turn your faces toward it [in prayer]. Indeed, those who have been given the Book know well that it is the truth from their Lord. And Allaah is not unaware of what they do."
(Quran Surah Baqrah 2:144)

Hadith

Change Of Qibla From Bait-ul-maqdis to Ka'ba was narrated in the following hadith.

Anas(R) reported:The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) used to pray towards Bait-ul-Maqdis, that it was revealed (to him):

" Indeed We see the turning of the face to heaven, where fore We shall assuredly cause thee to turn towards Qibla which shall please thee. So turn thy face towards the sacred Mosque (Ka'ba)" (Quran 2. 144). A person from Banu Salama was going; (he found the people) in ruk'u (while) praying the dawn prayer and they had said one rak'ah. He said in a loud voice: Listen! the Qibla has been changed and they turned towards (the new) Qibla (Ka'ba) in that very state. Sahih Muslim 527
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False/Fake Friends Lead To Hellfire.
Allah Is The True, Everlasting Friend!
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John 3:16 today = Kacou Philippe
Extract of "The Book of Prophet Kacou Philippe" published by Edilivre, France. www.philippekacou.org 

8 Know that my absolute is not Moses or Jesus-Christ of Nazareth, or another prophet of the Bible. Jesus of Nazareth can appear to me in a vision or a dream as Moses and Elijah appeared to him during his ministry. But that does not set Moses and Elijah above him. Every prophet is the absolute in his time. You see?
9 Well, Jesus-Christ had two phases in his ministry. First, he was the Lamb of God and through his sacrifice on the cross, he saved all mankind, including you and me, speaking to you. John the Baptist said: Behold the Lamb of God, who takes away the sin of the world. But the lamb is neither above the priest who slays it, nor above the sinner for whom it is slain. And secondly, Jesus-Christ had a prophetic ministry like mine in his time. Jesus is not my light. He was the absolute and the light of those of his time just as I, Kacou Philippe, am the absolute and the light of my time. And today, I have the keys of the Kingdom just as he also had the keys of the Kingdom in his time. Nobody can be saved unless by me. And John 3:16 today is For God so loved the world, that he gave his beloved prophet, Prophet Kacou Philippe, that whosoever believes on him may not perish, but have life eternal. Jesus-Christ was a prophet like me speaking to you today and you cannot claim that you would have believed in Jesus-Christ if you don’t believe in me today.
10 In 1995, the devil only showed me visions but Jesus not only had visions from the devil but the devil also lifted him and carried him… Matthew 4, verse 5 says: “Then the devil takes him to the holy city, and sets him upon the edge of the temple…” You see? And in verse 8, it is said that the devil lifts him and takes him to a high mountain, and shows him all the kingdoms of the world and their glory. You see? Jesus-Christ was a man like me speaking to you and he would say: He that has seen me has seen the Father. Jesus-Christ sucked at his mother’s breast like me, speaking to you and he would say: He that has seen me has seen the Father. Jesus-Christ had bowel mouvements like me speaking to you. And after that, he would say:  He that has seen me has seen the Father. What had prevented the Jews from believing in him there is what is preventing you from believing in me, Kacou Philippe, today. Jesus-Christ was a man like me speaking to you. You cannot claim you would have believed in Jesus-Christ or in one of the prophets of the Bible if you don’t believe in me, speaking to you today.
11 The same table is presented through Moses and Jesus. Moses redeemed all the Jews from Egypt by paying the price to Pharaoh but show me the name of Moses in the book of Prophet Jeremiah or in the book of Isaiah. They are not disciples of Moses but they are prophets like Moses. And I, Kacou Philippe that speak to you, am not a disciple of Moses, Jesus of Nazareth or any of the prophets of the Bible for me to conform with the Bible, but I am a Prophet like them.
12 You are free to reject me but know that, today, whoever you are, Kacou Philippe is your Prophet. Whether you are Christians, Jews, Muslims, Buddhists or other, Kacou Philippe is your Prophet. Whether you are the pope of Rome or a rabbi or a king or a president, Kacou Philippe is your Prophet. Whether you are Africans, Europeans, Americans or Asians, Kacou Philippe is your Prophet. It’s the Almighty God you claim to worship that speaks to you. The God who spoke in the Heaven, above Israel, was the same walking and speaking on earth through a human envelope called Jeremiah and the Jews did not understand. And talking for example about Moses’ adventures with the Ethiopian woman, Korah and Dathan said to Miriam: “Enough! A man who cannot control his sex and his libido cannot be our prophet”. And yet, Moses was more than a Prophet. And you, religious leaders, men with forked tongues, you cannot understand that because you are the wicked of the earth.

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The spot that is believed to be the birth place of Rasulullah (Salallahu 'Alayhi Wasallam).
There is a maktaba (library) now bt no one is allowed to enter there.. Saudi officers are 24/7 guarding this place
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Abraham was neither a Jew nor a Christian. He was an upright man, one who had surrendered himself to God. He was not one of those who associate partners with God.
Qur'an 3:67

Also recount the story of Abraham in the Book. He was a man of truth, and a prophet. He said to his father, "Why do you worship something that can neither hear nor see nor benefit you in any way?

Father, I have been given some knowledge which has not come to you, so follow me: I shall guide you along a straight path.

Father! Do not worship Satan -- for, truly, Satan is a rebel against the Most Gracious One!

Father, indeed I fear lest a punishment from the Gracious One afflict you, and you become a friend of Satan."

His father said, "Do you reject my deities, Abraham? If you do not desist, I shall surely stone you to death. Keep out of my way!"

Abraham replied, "Peace be on you: I will pray to my Lord for your forgiveness, He has indeed been gracious to me, I will separate myself from you and from whatever you call upon besides God, and I will pray only to my Lord. It may well be that, in calling on my Lord, I will not be disappointed."

So when he had separated himself from them and from what they worshipped besides God, We bestowed on him Isaac and Jacob, and We made each of them a prophet. We granted them Our mercy and bestowed on them true and high renown.
Qur'an 19:41-50
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Days become months, and months become years. Yet the pain of separation remains. These broken hearts will one day be mended, as we rejoice with our loved ones in Firdaws.
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This is so true ...

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Mu’aadh ibn Jabal (radhi allahu anhu) said:

“O’ people, you must seek knowledge before it is taken away, for indeed when its people (the scholars) die, it will be taken away. And beware of bid’ah, innovation and sophistication, and adhere to the ancient way [i.e., the way of the Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wassallam)].”
[Source: Al-Bidaayah wan-Nahy ‘anha by Ibn Waddaah]
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عَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ، أُمِرَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم أَنْ يَسْجُدَ عَلَى سَبْعَةِ أَعْضَاءٍ، وَلاَ يَكُفَّ شَعَرًا وَلاَ ثَوْبًا الْجَبْهَةِ وَالْيَدَيْنِ وَالرُّكْبَتَيْنِ وَالرِّجْلَيْنِ

Narrated Ibn ‘Abbas: The Prophet (peace be upon him) was ordered (by Allah) to prostrate on seven parts and not to tuck up the clothes or hair (while praying). Those parts are: the forehead (along with the tip of nose), both hands, both knees, and (toes of) both feet.

ابن عباس رضی اللہ تعالیٰ عنہما کے متعلق روایت کرتے ہیں کہ انہوں نے فرمایا کہ نبی صلی اللہ علیہ وآلہ وسلم نے سات اعضاء کے بل سجدہ کرنے کا حکم فرمایا ہے، اور یہ کہ بالوں کو نہ سنوارے، اور نہ کپڑے کو روکے، وہ سات اعضاء یہ ہیں، پیشانی، دونوں ہاتھ دونوں گھٹنے، دونوں پیر۔

[Sahih Al-Bukhari, Book of Adhan (Call to Prayer), Hadith: 809]
Chapter: To prostrate on seven bones
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Wifehood and Motherhood are Not the Only Ways to Paradise
by Maryam Amirebrahimi (virtualmosque)

We all know the honorable and weighty status of wifehood and motherhood in Islam. We all know that marriage completes half your deen1 and that the Prophet ﷺ (peace be upon him) has told us about the mother, “[…] Paradise is at her feet.”2

But getting married and becoming a mother is not the only way to get into Paradise. And not every grown woman is a wife and/or mother, nor will ever be. Some women will eventually become wives and/or mothers, if Allah subhanahu wa ta`ala (exalted is He) blesses them with such, but for others, Allah has blessed them with other opportunities.

Allah did not create women for the sake of wifehood or motherhood. This is not our first goal, nor our end goal. Our creation was to fulfill our first and most important role—to be His SLAVE. As He tells us in Surah Dhaariyat (Chapter of the Winnowing Winds), “And I did not create the jinn and humankind except to worship Me.”3

Worship comes in such a variety of forms. Being a housewife (a.k.a. domestic engineer!) can be a form of worship. Being a stay-at-home-mom can be a form of worship. Being a working wife and mother can be a form of worship. Being an unmarried female student can be a form of worship. Being a divorced female doctor, a female journalist, Islamic scholar, film director, pastry chef, teacher, veterinarian, engineer, personal trainer, lawyer, artist, nurse, Qur’an teacher, psychologist, pharmacist or salon artist can each be a form of worship. Just being an awesome daughter or house-fixer upper can be forms of worship. We can worship Allah in a variety of ways, as long as we have a sincere intention, and what we do is done within the guidelines He has set for us.

Unfortunately, however, that is not the message our community is sending to single sisters – both those who have never been married, and those who are now divorced. When I speak to many women and ask them about the ways they want to contribute to society and the ways they want to use their time and abilities, a number of them will tell me that they have no idea and that they’re only going through the motions of school or work while they’re waiting for Prince Muslim to come along and with whom they can establish parenthood.

However, Prince Muslim is not coming along quickly or easily for many awesome, eligible Muslim women. And for some, he has come along, and he or the institution of their relationship turned out to be more villainous than harmonious. Single and never married or divorced — very capable and intelligent Muslim women constantly have to deal with the pressure of being asked, “So…when are you getting married? You aren’t getting any younger. It’s harder to have kids when you’re older.”

The amount of tears, pain, stress, anger and frustration which these awesome women are constantly dealing with because of a social pressure to get married (especially when many already want to, but are just not finding the right person!) and have children is not from our religion.

Islam gave women scholarship. Our history is filled with women who have dedicated their lives to teaching Islamic sciences. Have you ever heard of Fatimah Sa`d al Khayr? She was a scholar who was born around the year 522. Her father, Sa`d al Khayr, was also a scholar. He held several classes and was “most particular about [his daughters] attending hadith classes, traveling with them extensively and repeatedly to different teachers. He also taught them himself.”4 Fatimah studied the works of the great al-Tabarani with the lead narrator of his works in her time.  You know who that lead narrator was? The lead narrator of Fatimah’s time was not named Abu someone (the father of someone, indicating that he was a male). The leading scholar of her time was a woman. Her name was Fatimah al-Juzadniyyah and she is the scholar who men and women alike would study under because in that era, she was the greatest and most knowledgeable in some of the classical texts.5 Fatimah Sa`d al Khayr eventually married and moved to Damascus and eventually to Cairo and she continued to teach. Many scholars travelled specifically to her city so they could study under her.6

Fatimah was brought up in a family that valued the education and knowledge of a woman to the point that her father was the one who would ensure she studied with scholars from a young age. Before marriage, she was not told to sit around and be inactive in the community out of fear that some men would find an educated woman unattractive or intimidating and would not want to marry her. She was not going through the motions of studying random things in college because she was stalling until she got married. She sought scholarship and Allah blessed her with a husband who was of her ranking, who understood her qualifications and drive, and who supported her efforts to continue teaching this religion even after marriage. She left a legacy we unfortunately have most likely never heard about because we rarely hear about the over eight thousand female scholars of hadith who are part of our history.7

Why do we never hear about Fatimah Sa`d al Khayr and the thousands of female scholars who were like her? I think that one of the reasons—and it’s just a personal theory—that as a community, we are so focused on grooming our women to be wives and mothers that we lose sight of the fact that this is not even our number one role.

Servitude to Allah is our number one role. We need to use what He has given us, the means that we have at the moment we have, to worship Him in the best of ways.

Islamic history is filled with examples of women who were wives and mothers, who focused completely on their tasks of being wives and/or mothers, and produced the likes of Imam Ahmed rahimahu allah (may God have mercy on him).8 We take those examples as a community and we reiterate the noble status of such incredible women.

But we also have examples of people who were not only wives and not only mothers, but those who were both of those, one of those, or none of those, and still were able to use the passions, talents and skills Allah blessed them with to worship Him through serving His creation, through calling His creation back to His Deen and leaving legacies for the generations to come. Some of these women were wives and mothers and dedicated their lives to focusing on their families completely and some of them continued to serve the greater society at large.

Shaykh Mohammad Akram Nadwi mentions in his introduction to his Dictionary of women hadith scholars, Al Muhadithaat, “Not one [of the 8000 female hadith scholars he researched] is reported to have considered the domain of family life inferior, or neglected duties therein, or considered being a woman undesirable or inferior to being a man, or considered that, given aptitude and opportunity, she had no duties to the wider society, outside of the domain of family life.”9

Female scholars in our history were focused on being family women when they had families to whom they held responsibilities, and  when able, they also had goals and objectives in life which extended beyond the roles of wifehood and motherhood. So what about someone who is not yet married? Many single women are using their time to the utmost, focusing on improving their skills and abilities to contribute back to the ummah (community) and society at large. They are loving worshipping Allah through investing in their abilities and using those for the greater good. Perhaps we can all take from their example.

God, in His Wisdom, has created each one of us differently and in different circumstances. Some recognize this, love any stage they are in, and develop their abilities to the fullest. Let us, too, use the time and abilities God has given us to maximize our worship to Him and work for the betterment of society and humanity as a whole. If wifehood or motherhood comes in the process, then at least we were using all of our ability to worship Him before it came and can continue to use the training and stamina we gained before marriage to worship Him with excellence once it comes along.

If there are parents, families and communities that are pressuring women to get married and have kids: Be grateful Allah (swt) has blessed you with daughters, married or unmarried, mothers or not, as the Prophet ﷺ has said, “Do not be averse to daughters, for they are precious treasures that comfort your heart.”10 We are putting more pressure on our sisters than they can emotionally and psychologically handle. Let us give them space, let them find themselves and establish their relationships with Allah.

Allah created us to worship Him. That is our number one role. Now, let us do our part and figure out how best we can fulfill the purpose for which we’ve been created.

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1.Al Bayhaqi [↩]
2.Al-Nasaa’i [↩]
3.Qur’an, 51:56 [↩]
4.Nadwi, Mohammad Akram, Al Muhadithaat, Interface Publications, (2007): pg. 93. Print. [↩]
5.Ibid [↩]
6.Nadwi, Mohammad Akram, Al Muhadithaat, Interface Publications, (2007): pg. 95. Print. [↩]
7.Nadwi, Mohammad Akram, Al Muhadithaat, Interface Publications, (2007). Print. [↩]
8.The Code of Scholars, Muhammad Alshareef. EmanRush, 2008. CD [↩]
9.Nadwi, Mohammad Akram, Al Muhadithaat, Interface Publications, (2007): pg. XV. Print. [↩]
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