A story of " Accountability in LOVE & FRIENDSHIP " By Rishu Kapoor
Guys, this story are for those who always calculates DO's & DON'Ts in Friendship & Love Relationship (On the Occasions of Friendship day)
Yesterday I was sitting on Road side, waiting for my frnd to pick me up...
But sitting ideal was thinking that in my past relationship i have done a lot for my Boy friend & for my best friends also, But never received that Love & care as expected, at last Return was nothing (I am Empty Handed Now :( )
Suddenly I saw a young beautiful lady selling carrots near by me at the corner of the road... People were coming to buy it, but when they start picking and choosing the carrots, she would say "I only sell carrots in volumes there is no pick and choose". So all these people had to buy carrots in volumes/in bulk.
Then after a while there a smart young man appears, who came to her to get carrots with a smile on his face, :) But a strange thing happened....
I noticed this time she ignored all the customer for a while and she herself picked the best carrots for him.
I was quite surprised looking at the incident that she gave him best carrots from her stock, so after this men had left i asked her, sister, how come you let only him to hand pick the carrots, in fact you yourself picked and choose carrots for him.
Her reply made me surprised ......She replied in just one sentence....
She said- "He is my Husband (my Life Partner) and I think, In this relationship there is No Accounts / No Condition / No Calculations. " ,
A true love & Best friendship always free from Counting s of Do's & Don't's (No conditions Applies) :) <3 :)
She said, for me Always him first & any thing for him without calculations. :)
I got tears in my eyes ... I got speechless, just a few minutes before i was thinking that I have spent a lot for my Boy friend & My other friends, I was thinking that may be i have wasted 5 years in love of him, i should move on, i should forget all those friends who never responded me :(
But she gave me replies of all my thoughts just in one sentence. :'(
Moral :- Guys Really If you mean some one as a best friend Or more then that then never do Counting of Do's & Dont's . There is no accounts and No Calculations in true Relationship. True love is to present ur soul without conditions n numbering, No Explanations / No Expectation that i did this n u did that... !!
we all have huge list of expectations from our partner, he or she should do this for me, he should gift that for me, he will take there to me, he should look smart & sexy, he should be like this & that (T or B ) :(
WE ALWAYS MAKE OUR RELATIONSHIP- A BUSINESS OF ACCOUNTS & NUMBERS .We always compare do's in our love relation ship... If He did this for me then only i will do that for him.. Or vice versa. This makes our relationship weak n results breakup and then we blame others that no body is serious here.This not not love, this is not lovers relationship... This is just a business like we do with others.
See that women selling carrot how he makes her husband different from business and from other customer and gave a lesson to all of us not to count or accounts in love. Guys Just give ur 100% dont expect just give with pure heart... That's all... After that God will manage how to make ur love strong.
And sorry to say that same thing we are doing with our God in prayers , we says we always go to temple we give money there but why he dont listen to us. ?
No never do accounting n numbering if ur serious in any relation either its god or partner. I think we all are wasting this life in the pride of wealth and the splendor of beauty.
खुशी मिली तो खा गये मिठाई समझ के , जो गम मिला तो खा गये दवाई समझ के ,
किया दोस्तों को माफ हरजाई समझ के , दुश्मनो को भी माफ किया छोटा भाई समझ के ,
जिन्दगी को चख लिया मलाई समझ के , मौत को भी चख लेंगे रिहाई समझ के ,
मैं वाकिफ था जिन्दगी के सभी नतीजो से , पर सारे इम्तहान दिया पढाई समझ के :)
A Happy Friendship Day to all ( With No Accountability ) By Rishu
<3 RS <3