Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven. Luke 6:37.
I have noticed that people often have a list of things in mind that I must do or not do to be their friend or acquaintance. Once I figure out what those things are ( if that is even possible ) then I decide whether I will make some effort to indulge these things or not. I try not to carry a list of my expectations to place on others so I usually forget what their list is and just be myself hoping that they will accept me for me as I accept them for them. I have found that some stop being my friend after a brief time while others accept me for who I am and remain my friend. There is no way to agree with everybody, but I made the choice to accept and forgive and to avoid judging and/or condemning others. While I am not perfect and I do not expect perfection from others Luke 6:37 is the standard of excellence that I hold myself to.
May the Lord bless you Google people.