Women are spending a lot of money to become fantasies that rests in the minds of dudes...saved & unsaved. Just because you're saved doesn't x you out of this. Sistas, its all an illusion. Its fake. Stop trying to compete with an image that won't be able to speak life into him, support him, be that wife and mother to his kids. Be his friend. All this this is something that this image in his head cannot do. And if dude is trying to make you look like that image in his head, he doesn't love you, but he lusts that image.