well there's also the famous viking age marriage eupheism "taking an arrow to knee" said in refference to the immobile farmer's life most married men and women of the viking age settled into upon said marriage.
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maybe there should be a thing where men at arms with a lot of experience become veteran men at arms with better morale and stat-wise they are not terrible, maybe even decent spear units. still negliglable armor but better spears picked form the field of battle during their war careers. is this a good idea or does it go against any brettonian law that too experienced men at arms are killed or something?