Sometimes, the slightest comment can reveal a darkness that dwells in your soul. It's sad to see in a friend. I try not to hold grudges. I read recently, and I truly wish I remember where, that our brains are not a singular force representing our morals. They are more like a small crowd of people with decidedly different interests, all begging for your conscious attention. I always remember that when I think of someone like Mel Gibson. I think we all have that little, hateful being inside of us, and some of us, accidentally or through a weak will, let that piece take the microphone for a brief instant. But I don't think that sums up the totality of our being. This is why people deserve forgiveness.