Bit of a tanger going on so sorry :)
Thing is, though I don't feel bad, I do know where you're coming from. On my SL 54 build, I decided that I wanted to become a friendly darkwraith for a bit. Had some white titanite slabs which I didn't need, some boss souls that I didn't need either, wore no weapons, invaded anor londo and tried befriending people. I would first find the host and his summons and try to establish that I was friendly. They would try to kill me but I would dodge out of the way and after the guys I invaded would pull a shrug or a wave to ask me WTF I was doing, I would drop my items.
One summon who was throwing lithning spears at me shrugged and I dropped him a white titanite slab. He bowed to me after tkaing it and started wasting his spears away on thhe poor anor londo staircase. ANother guy who looked very noobish (full havels minus helm, a zweihander that barely did me any damage. I think it was only +5 or so). I dropped him a chunk and a soul of manus and was so happy he went fighting a silver knight unarmed. Moments like that give me more joy than pushing a player off a cliff at Oolacile. It's not making their game easier, it's just being friendly and helping them, it's making these players realize that even if we do invade and be 'dickwraiths' we're still good humans at heart.
At the same time as that, I invaded someone who was eithe rhakcing or had very high attunement as he was spamming spell after spell. I only thought about this later as I did my usual dodging schtick to establish that I was friendly but after seeing how dickish they were being I decided fuck it, I'm gonna dodge just to piss them off. Sid invasion ended with me being disconnected from master of world XD