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Differences in gender social perceptions
Or, as most people call it, male privilege. Language is an interesting artifact, because not only it allows us to name and refer to things without having to point at them, but it also allows additional meanings to be attached to them. A word, a label, often carries several connotations and additional implied meanings that describe an object beyond its actual, real properties.

It would be wonderful... if the implied meanings were accurate. Unfortunately, they are not. Have a read at just how different someone is perceived just from their gender, even if the underlying persona remains the same.

#society #privilege
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Funny. Sad but true!  Edifyingly confirming of what I always suspected.
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Stereotype Threat: When the subconscious sabotages the conscious

People like categorizing, it's a way to understand, and classify, the world. Yet, did you know to what extend our beliefs influence our actions? The stereotypes (or generalizations) that get tossed to every kind of group actually impact them at a subconscious level: people truly end up becoming reflections of the labels they have been assigned in their lives.

This is why I'd rather not voice any kind of opinion I may have on a group, because no matter how accurate (or not) it is, the mere stating it, and the social reinforcement that follows, will make it valid.

If you ever catch yourself believing "Group X is more Y," you truly may want to read this article and think about it. This is perhaps the best example of an "universal subconscious" at work.

#society   #subconscious   #stereotypes  

h/t: A certain person which G+ wont let me tag. o_o
Sep 3, 2015 — There is empirical evidence to support the idea that males have a higher capacity for spatial reasoning than females. A large-scale 1995 meta-analysis found that on average, men outperform women in a cluster of tests related to spatial ability by nearly a full standard deviation, and in attempt to explain this, researchers have hypothesized about the impact of testosterone and...
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It's probably both, as with all ambivalent things in life. It's good, because I understand you better, but it's also bad because that means the gap between our knowledge may be shrinking, thus we'll have less to learn from each another? :>

Anyway, it's nice to still see you around, +Kitten Holiday​, despite the many times you've felt like quitting, g+ still compels you (and that may also be both good and bad. ^_^;) 
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On paid sex, emotions and faithfulness

I found this article pretty interesting. One of the common criticisms that sex work gets is how it muddles the space between work, sex and emotions. Some people are upset at the notion that somebody would be paid to "just enjoy what they do," while others can't see any distinction between loving sex and paid sex. Yet, it turns out that sometimes even people within the industry have problems with paid sex and emotions getting mingled.

I am under the impression that a monogamist point of view just clashes harshly with the reality of having (and enjoying) sex with other people, even if it's work. Perhaps one needs to look beyond labels, beyond jealousy, to figure out an arrangement that works without involving feelings of insecurity or inconfort?

Would it even be possible to work our own thoughts and views into a paradigm which manages to minimize the impact of jealous feelings, where they really shouldn't have any logical ground?

Granted, there will always be room for monogamy, it just seems a bad match for certain people... or certain professions.

h/t: +Violet Blue
#pornography   #monogamy   #faithfulness
When your job is getting paid to have sex, lines become blurred between the professional and the personal. And for porn stars, it can be tough to maintain a monogamous relaitonship.
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On knowing why we know: metacognition over social narratives

We humans like thinking that we are rational beings capable of higher-level thinking, and that that separates us from other animals. The problem is, our brains are so efficient that they manage to automate a significant part of our learning processes, to the point where we no longer are aware of some of the sources of our beliefs.

These influences will remain hidden from our awareness, subconsciously shaping our very view of the world, until they get pointed out and we acknowledge them; only then can we actually claim ownership of such knowledge and appropriately use it.

The shared article focuses on racism, but any angle will do to learn and understand the degree to which our culture shapes our thinking.

#psychology   #society   #cognition  
 
quote: The mass media helps to create what Walter Lippman famously referred to as “the pictures inside our heads.’” The news media (and popular culture as a whole) helps individuals to create a cognitive map of the world around them by teaching lessons about life, politics, society, desire, relationships, and other values. This cognitive map also helps individuals to locate themselves relative to other groups of people in a given community. This cognitive map provides a set of rules, guidelines, and heuristics for navigating social reality.

In a society such as the United States, organized around maintaining certain hierarchies of race, class, gender, and sexuality, how one sees themselves is often a reflection of precisely how they are not members of a given group. Those lessons are internalized on both a conscious and subconscious level; on a basic level, the in-group is defined relative to the out-group.

This is the essence of making a person or group into the Other.
The contrast in media narratives about Baltimore and Waco are undeniable—but many white Americans are blind to them.
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I would say that ignorance tends to see everything in two colours: right and wrong. Dichotomies everywhere make for a so much simpler (and duller) understanding of the world. :P
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Welcome to the social internet: where we are all judges and executors

A lack of empathy coupled with a strong desire for justice in a world that seems so unjust are sufficient to launch us into what is aptly named mob justice.

With the internet giving a voice to all of us, everybody is empowered to be a force of change, a force of good.

Yet, if we are not careful on how we go about it, our thirst for justice will just end up being a quest for vengeance, and the punishment may be way steeper than the crime.

This is why I believe that true justice can only be attained when empathy is exercised.
 
Oh good. I'm not alone in referring to it as mob justice.
Outrage culture and internet mob justice make a mockery of justice and ruin the lives of real people.
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Six kinds of love
Long ago I read a book by psychologist Walter Riso which broke down the components of a healthy relationship into a balance of three types of love: agape, philia, and Eros. It turns out that there are even more types of love that the Greek understood.

Understanding these could be a good help to realize the state of our relationships and which kinds of love we might need more of in our lives (and no, don't expect a single romantic partner to be the infallible source for all of them, that's a recipe for disappointment).
 
I dug this article up when I was looking for the nth varieties of "love" in another conversation here on G-Plus. For all of english's incredible agility as a trade and technical language it's daily use is emotionally stilted. Why aren't we using eros, philia, ludus, agape, pragma, and philautia as words in our daily life? 

These are Greek concepts and words. Are there any words you know of that we could steal from asian or other non-romance languages? I want to hear them. I'm sick of using the dumb phrase "love" when I really want to express a nuanced form of appreciation and/or affection. 
Can six loves known to the Greeks inspire us to move beyond our current addiction to romantic love, which has 94 percent of young people hoping — but often failing — to find a unique soul mate who can satisfy all their loving needs?
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The capacity for love is a bit of a big concept. I've considered it on the scale of our faith in humanity (e.g.: if we think people, deep down, are all selfish, that stunts our ability to love). But both axes could be intertwined, as our view of humanity tends to be tinted by our own view of ourselves. Thus, in a way, knowledge of ourselves implies knowledge of others, and both are involved in the development of wisdom (which is my personal theory of how love is best nurtured). 
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When reason and kindness fail, there's always room for shaming

Social pressure is an exceptionally strong normalizing force, as it is what enforces the "social contract" way before any laws are required. The linked article tells a brief history of how shaming has been used effectively in the recent past to alter the course of society, and thus, how it could be used today in positive ways.

Granted, for it to work it requires a significant number of supporters; or enough media influence to make it seem significant (this highlights how important is the media's role in shaping the course of society, but that's another topic).

Though I'd much rather use kindness and empathy to try and get people agreeing, there might be cases where the time is against us, and more drastic measures are required.

PS: Do notice the distinction between shaming and humiliating: target the beliefs, not the people.
 
The best way to win a debate is to present your facts in a clear, respectful way. When that doesn't work, another option is incessant ridicule. Here's why we have to use shame if we want to stop the anti-vaccine movement.
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I may not be big on sharing inspiring images... but this bit actually is a parallel to the passage from seeking knowledge to acquiring wisdom. It's one of those worthy goals I hope to never lose sight of.
 
When most people hear me describe this approach, they typically say, “No problem, I’m open-minded!” But what they really mean is that they’re open to being wrong. True open-mindedness is an entirely different mind-set. It is a process of being intensely worried about being wrong and asking questions instead of defending a position. It demands that you get over your ego-driven desire to have whatever answer you happen to have in your head be right. Instead, you need to actively question all of your opinions and seek out the reasoning behind alternative points of view."
~Ray Dalio


https://www.farnamstreetblog.com/2015/04/ray-dalio-not-knowing/
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Modern day slavery

This is a lengthy, and really depressing, read. The fact that somehow I've lived this long without even suspecting such human right abuses only makes it worse.

However, I feel it'd be irresponsible to not spread this information, so here it is.

And they call it the land of the free...
 
The H-2 visa program invites foreign workers to do some of the most menial labor in America. Then it leaves them at the mercy of their employers. Thousands of these workers have been abused — depri...
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It's tempting to say evidence strongly points to "No", but that's not necessarily so—see http://thehumanevolutionblog.com/2014/12/08/the-world-is-not-going-to-hell-in-a-handbasket/ . Things get particularly apposite starting at "Violence and war".
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So, how damaging pornography actually is?

I recall reading some stories around this subject recently, and the general consensus is... that's it's bad, quite bad. Yet, that's mostly how people perceive it to be, what happens when scientists actually get down to studying it?

Well, it's more a case of correlation than causation. The end conclusion says it all:
We shouldn’t be worrying about whether pornography has negative repercussions on society. We should be worrying about the kind of society that would lead to the types of pornography we find distasteful in the first place – and work on fixing that society rather than blaming its inevitable result.

#sexuality   #pornography
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That conclusion really does say it all.
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The end is nigh

The elephant in the room is that we are headed towards a truly awful future unless we can achieve a sort of "global awakening of humanity."

Aren't we glad it's just our grandchildren who are going to suffer?

Via +Susan Stone​, whose thread has some great comments, here:
https://plus.google.com/+SusanStone/posts/XfKCdzbgxJA

#climatechange
 
A sobering outlook of the current crisis.

#climatechange   #globalwarming   #sustainability   #science  
It's still "possible" to avoid horribly grim outcomes, but ... not likely.
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Why an Enduring Self is a delusion

The Self is the focal narrative point for all of us. Yet, upon further inspection, what it is becomes much more harder to define. It isn't quite our personality, for it is highly variable, depending on various contextual factors such as the emotions that are being experienced at the time. It also isn't our beliefs or knowledge, for that too changes with time (though at a more gradual pace).

The shared article explores a bit these topics, within the Buddhist notion of Anatta (non-self), and then goes on a bit into the implications, and applications, that such a concept can have upon our daily lives (it's written from a psychotherapeutic point of view).

It's a somewhat lengthy read, but a very thought-provoking one at that.

#psychology   #buddhism
 
I thought this was interesting....
Mindfulness practice increases our capacity to ride the waves of pleasure and pain.
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There are ways to meditate, +Arjaya Mahajana​. Personally speaking, I understand "quieting the mind" as a way to listen and become aware of our automatic thoughts. It's a tool to help raise awareness of the automatic, the goal isn't to have a blank mind, even if that's the tool used to achieve it. :P
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Introverted thinker with interests in philosophy and psychology. May not enjoy posting all that much (with the attention it gathers), but likes commenting on subjects of interest and playing the role of antagonist.

My being here isn't really to make friends or network, but instead as a resource for interesting debate and attaining wisdom. Because of this, I am likely to follow people who have engaging, insightful, or otherwise thought-provoking public content.

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