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Red Feather Networking
Our network is global. Our bond is strong. Yours is too. You simply haven't met them yet.
Our network is global. Our bond is strong. Yours is too. You simply haven't met them yet.

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You've worked on the visual content. You've polished your script and it's awesome. Polished and professional presentation skills are important, but don’t miss out on those other actions that truly set you apart from the average presenter.

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Red Feather Networking +Michele Lawson +Kelly Phillips 

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It's time to learn how to network in a way that fits you! At Unleash Your Networking Mojo you'll develop a plan for networking in your own style. April 22nd in Cary at the Matthews House.  Register for the Cary session now!

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Find out what REALLY happened at Disney last week!

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We have all heard the saying, “it's never too late” and I agree with that wholeheartedly in most situations. When it comes to networking the mantra is “it's never too early!”

Imagine this – a new neighbor moves in and you have yet to meet them. The first time they knock on your door it is to ask you if you will cat sit while they go on vacation. WHAT? Who does that? Insane right? Uncomfortable? Awkward? To say the least!

If we stop thinking of networks as people we target for a specific purpose and start looking at it as a circle of people that you have for support – it tends to make the picture clearer. My “network” doesn't only hear from me when I need something important. How you keep in touch with your friends is similar to the way you should keep in touch with your network. When you see an article for something you know is of interest to someone – shoot them a quick “saw this and thought you would enjoy it” email. Going to be in a city where someone in your network lives – ask them to dinner. Planning a vacation some place you have never been – give everyone a shout out on Twitter or Facebook and ask for suggestions of places to eat or things to see. By building a circle of true relationships versus a list of people in your Rolodex who are “good to know” you are providing yourself with unlimited resources. Remember, not only are they now your network but THEIR network is also part of your network. It's a relationship that keeps on giving.

Red Feather Networking understands that everyone has their individual hangups regarding reaching out and making these connections and WE WANT TO HELP! Kelly and I provide one-on-one Coaching Sessions because we know that no matter how many books you read or how many people you talk to, your networking style is going to be as unique as your personality. Let us help you identify your barriers and develop a networking plan that is tailored to you, your style and your needs. Head on over and find your networking mojo!

Thanks for reading ~ Michele

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Last Saturday I had the privilege of speaking to the women of Dress for Success of the Triangle’s Professional Women’s Group. They were learning how to network, some for the very first time. The participants of this program are stepping up and taking action to get jobs, build their careers and improve their worlds. I find that incredibly inspiring. There are so many women in this world at all economic levels who never realize that they have untapped potential – the potential to be something different or something more than they are right at this minute. The women I met on Saturday not only recognize their own potential, but they are acting to turn that potential into a tangible reality. I don’t have enough words to tell you how inspiring it was to hear about their successes.

It’s easy to put off networking when things are going well. In the course of our daily lives – work, family, hobbies – we don’t think about reaching out and maintaining relationships that our outside of our normal routines. But networking isn’t a rainy day activity. It’s something that you need to incorporate into your routine. And the benefit you get from having a strong network isn’t only valuable when you’re walking through a storm. It can bring you amazing benefits at anytime. In fact, learning how to network can help you achieve your dreams.

Imagine for a moment, all of the things that make you… well, you. Picture it floating around you like a cloud, your skills, knowledge, talents, connections, advice. You may even take a lot of these things for granted. Now, imagine everyone walking around with their own clouds containing all of the things that make them, them. When you don't know how to network, you pass each other by with no interaction and no chance to share all of those wonderful things that make you unique. Do you suddenly see all of the opportunity you’re missing? Opportunity to share your cloud with someone else. To combine your skills with their knowledge and create something great for you both. That is what networking is all about.

This is the heart of the message Michele and I hold dear. Networking is about making connections and opening the door to possibility. We’re here to help you understand not just the theory, but the mechanics of how to make this happen for you, in your own way. Our techniques make learning how to network so much easier. You don’t have to be an extrovert, you don’t have to have a ton of friends, you just have to take the first step and get started. Dream big – it’s worth it!

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Behind the fireworks, the hot dogs, the heat, and the celebration of the American Independence Day, do you ever stop to think about the people who fought to make our country possible? Imagine the courage it must have taken to make that huge step of declaring oneself independent of a country. Knowing that there would be such a high cost and such a long fight to achieve that goal. Knowing that failure would result in death for any man who dared to sign that document declaring themselves a free nation. By contrast, my life is so easy.

Sometimes, it's all about perspective. On the days when I struggle through 2 hours of rush hour traffic to drive the 26 miles from work to my house, I tend to lose that perspective. When the laundry is piling up, the bills are waiting to be paid, and blog posts are waiting to be written, my perspective shrinks me down to a tiny little speck looking up at these insurmountable obstacles as if they were mountains.

On Independence Day, I remember. I understand that those mountains are simple small piles of sand that I can move with a child's plastic shovel. I realize that those obstacles that seem so large at the moment, are really the benefits of the choices I have made for my life. The choice to have a career and show up at a job where I am paid money. The privilege of owning a car and a house, and living where I choose to live. The ability to walk into a store and buy clothing that is ready to wear out to the dinner that someone else will cook, serve, and clean up for me. These things are not "rights". I'm not entitled to have these things because I live in America or am inherently a part of some privileged group, and they can all be taken away in an instant because of a pink slip at work or a myriad of other misfortunes that I am  unable to predict.

On this Independence Day, I ask you to think for a moment about your life and how everything you have is the result of a choice. I know it doesn't always feel that way — but it's true. You make choices – good, bad, ambivalent – every single day and your daily life is filled with the consequences of those choices. I urge you to resist the tendency to move through your life on autopilot, and start thinking about how every choice you make impacts your future.

In terms of networking, it's about that choice to say hello, to extend your attention and possibly your friendship to someone new. Turning off the judgmental filter that we carry with us and seeing that person for who they really are and how they impact the world around them.

Happy Independence Day!

~ Kelly

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Someone recently posted this saying on Facebook “Don’t grow up…it’s a trap” and my immediate thought in my head was “thank goodness I didn’t fall for that whole “growing up” thing”.  Not that I’m NOT a grown up.  Chronologically, I’m VERY grown up.  However, I’m not always grown up in my actions.  Am I immature?  Not in the least. I am a hard worker, I’m organized, and I’m responsible.  I present myself well in business meeting and can hold an adult conversation with the best of them.  However, I think as adults we often grow up and grow out of childlike qualities that are actually great qualities.

Have you ever stopped to really think about the growing up process? 
Here is what it looks like to me –

Infancy – We not only need but we enjoy and find comfort in allowing others to do things for us.  To help nurture us and to help us on our path to self-discovery.

Toddler – We are very satisfied with the basics of life…. Food…. Naps… Friends… Family… Love.  If someone makes us mad we tell them – then it’s over and we go back to playing.

Child – We take pride in our paintings and show them off to the world by hanging them on the fridge.  We like to sing and dance whenever there is music.  We giggle at what makes us happy and we cry at what makes us sad.

Then we “GROW UP” …

As adults we often see it as a negative to allow others to help us or to ask for help when we need it.  We think that if others view us as not fully independent and self sufficient then it is a flaw.  We look at food, sleep, friends, family and love as the necessities yet we are always in search of more.  We dance and sing only in appropriate settings and only if we feel secure about not being judged.  We often down play our accomplishments in order to not draw attention to ourselves.  We filter our feelings often not showing emotions until we are alone in our rooms.  We strive for perfection because anything less is considered inferior.

I am on a path of learning how to listen to my inner-child.  I am often found laughing too loudly when with my friends and family.   I can’t help but embrace the music often singing and dancing at inappropriate times. I smile for the entire world to see when I’m happy and don’t try to hide my tears from friends when I’m sad. I’ve learned that I can’t stop people from casting judgment.  They are going to do it no matter what I do – so I might as well be myself.  At the advice of a very wise woman, I’m learning to “dance with my imperfections” and I’m much happier for it.

Are you up for the challenge?  Are you ready to embrace your inner-child?   It may take practice but I promise you that the more you do it the easier it becomes.  So go ahead – post your artwork on the fridge and when your favorite song comes on – don’t look around –  just dance, dance, dance.
I would love to hear all about your child-like antics.  I might even share a few of my own.  Email me directly at, say hi on Twitter @chelelawson, connect with me on LinkedIn – Michele Lawson, or simply leave a comment to this post.

Thanks for reading ….

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A great vintage post from RFN's very own #Hashtag Addict!

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I’m not the “hippie” type.  Please don’t send me hate mail if you are a hippie; some of my best friends are hippie types.  Not me.  I don’t eat tofu… I am not always “green”… I like my designer shoes and purses… I don’t go around making farfetched analogies and I don’t really care for trees in my yard.    However, it’s those last two that prompted this post today. 
Today I am having tree service work done in my yard.  I originally called the guy to have three trees removed.  By the time my consult was done he had convinced me to leave two of the trees and only remove one (not sure how this guy makes money)… anyway…  I just got one of those calls that will immediately make you want to be sick.  I pick up the phone to hear my tree guy say “Mrs. Lawson, Sorry to bother you at work but I have bad news”.   OH NO… THIS CANT BE GOOD.  In 13 seconds my mind flashed images of:
A tree falling into my house.
A tree falling into my neighbors house.
The tree guy falling out of the tree.
A tree falling on the tree guy.
A tree falling on a passing vehicle.
Thank goodness it was none of my morbid scenarios.  His “bad news” was the fact that in removing the one bad tree he discovered that the good tree next to it was not as healthy as he had thought.  The offending tree had, over the years, caused the innocent and unexpecting tree next to it to become damaged.  Basically, the BAD tree got into the GOOD trees personal space.  It caused the good tree to lose all its limbs on one side in order to avoid the BAD tree.  When losing the limbs wasn’t enough, the GOOD tree started to lean in the opposite direction of the BAD tree to try to get away from it.  The only option I had was to drop the GOOD tree. 
This, much to my surprise, caused me to have one of those hippie analogy moments.   If I were a tree – who would be the trees beside me that grow big, strong,  straight, tall and encourage me to do the same.  Who are the trees beside me that are causing me to bend, change, veer off my goals path and will eventually lead to the demise of my dreams?  
I’d like to tell you that I could only think of “strong tree” type friends and colleagues and that no one came to mind as the “invasive and harmful tree” – but that would be a lie.  I actually came up with several offenders.  Some I had always known were non-supporters in my life while others came to be quite a shock to me.  By using this tree analogy I was able to see more clearly how some people very cunningly and stealthily are sabotagers (I think I made this work up but you know what I mean).
So now the big question is- what am I going to do about it?  I wish I could give you the answer to that but at the moment I don’t have one.  I think identifying the negativity around me was a huge eye opener for me.  What I know for sure is that I now have those BAD trees on my radar.  I will keep a close eye on them.  I will stand tall against them.  And, if I find they are unwilling to grow big, straight, strong and tall with me then I will have to do as my wise tree guys suggested and ….. drop them.
I bet in the brief moments it took you to read this blog, you immediately had a “good tree” or “bad tree” pop into your head.  Who supports you?  Who tries to hold you back; doesn’t want to see you succeed?  I’d love to hear about it.  Email me directly at Or free free to say hi on Twitter @chelelawson, connect with me on LinkedIn – Michele Lawson, or simply leave a comment to this post.
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