What a bunch of crap, This woman must be from another planet.......Not only is she redundant, she has (in my opinion) no clue what she is talking about. From what I have heard and seen from a Male's prospective is that most men are afraid of marriage because of the financial issues involved, ie: the ability to purchase a home at todays outrageous prices. The thought of not being able to give your wife the best the World has to offer and knowing there is someone out there who could. Some have feelings that if they open up completely and give all of themselves to a woman they become very vulnerable to deep pain. However, from what I see, so many people are not being taught by their parents, do not have deep family connections any longer, as children they have their electronic toys with head phones and become lost in their own world. Not having meals together, not watching family programs together, much of are togetherness as a family unit has been lost in the last couple of generations, Everyone doing their own thing is not a healthy way to live, but it gets embedded subconsciously as a child and carries over to adulthood. Women are being taught in school to become more independant and for many men this attitude of I am fine alone and don't need anyone to care for me is hurtful in as much as Most Men want to have someone to Do For. The stronger sex attitude does not go down easily with most men and they want someone who expresses somewhat of a need for them to be the stronger sex and are not totally on board with the woman who expresses her ability to be just as strong without a man in their life. As a child I noticed and felt that people wanted to be married, have children, raise a family and SHARE together. Now for the most part, people when they do get married are busy doing their own thing and don't find the time to have the togetherness of generations lost. From time to time I see families that do everything together, and to see the bond they share warms your heart, however that is not the case of normality. Always enjoyed the saying: A Family that plays together, stays together and those words are so very true. This teaching of individuality and the outrageous cost of living, look how taxes have gone up in the last 100 years, WOW! Society is making it hard to feel comfortable as the correct and moral thing to do in marriage. Morals? that is a whole subject in itself, but where have they gone? There is so much more to why Men are afraid to marry, but don't think this woman has a clue!