I understand shes upset but why does she care? I'm in a interracial marriage - my wife is Chinese and im white. Nobody gives a crap. I just took my ham technician exam at this guys house in South Central LA which is one of the biggest African American communities in the US and the guy administering the test was black and his wife was Filipino! All his neighbors were black! he was doing ok! Its only a PROBLEM if you let it become one!