lol I totally know what you mean. . the other day at the vet hospital, we went to pick up med for my sister's cat. . there was this girl who was over weight and she was so young and had lots of sores on her hands and arms. . . I just sat right next to her and started talking to her about the 80-10-10 diet. . you know people can get offended if a skinny 'bitch' starts talking to them about health but you can tell before you approach them. . . .and really like FreeLeey says they want help . . they are sick of being fat and unhealthy. . it isn't comfortable physically, mentally or emotionally with that much weight on you . .