The guy has no problem with the girl sleeping with black men, just so long as she's not seen in public with them? Really? Worth mentioning that in MANY rural/suburban communities, for a white girl to be with a black guy…is unacceptable. Those are just the facts. It's frowned upon. And the issue is much larger than this controversy. His rich white friends will think much less of her…

The fact that the woman is calling him "honey", let me get you a drink…and taping the whole conversation for the world to hear? Why not tell him he's an ***hole and break up with him then and there on tape? 

I'm just telling it the way I see it. A person with no job, no education, and no future, versus an intelligent and successful person, weigh you're relationships on that scale One of the most intelligent theoretical physicists in the world at MIT is Black. ….race shouldn't be a factor. If she's running around with losers that's one thing.