I don't care if I lose friends to this, but whoever believes that gays and lesbians shouldn't be allowed to marry are wrong. We are human too and I believe that that is a right you can't take away from us. I understand that churches don't have to marry a gay or lesbian couple but that is their choice. Yes. Everyone has freedom of speech but insulting people like me who don't really make a choice on who they love is hurtful. But seriously, people. The choice is made. We have as many rights as any other citizen in the United States. Taking away someone's rights to marry is against the constitution. So get over it, homophobes. It's our right to marry who we want. Marriage is not always between a man and a woman. Some, like me, don't see it that way.