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Deanne Victor
Me vs. Life and I'm gettin' my ass kicked here.
Me vs. Life and I'm gettin' my ass kicked here.
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I'm so tired of sub-par junk masquerading as decent merchandise. Don't buy this fan!!!

Found this on tumblr and it was so poignant that I had to share:
"If you ever need proof that men hate women, just watch how violently and how angrily and how indignant they act when a woman says 'my personal experiences combined with the experiences of my female loved ones have made me afraid of you collectively'.

'Fuck you, that’s stupid, not every man is like that.' 
Maybe not, but you clearly are.

When men say this, it has nothing to do with making women feel safer or changing women’s minds about men. It has everything to do with silencing women through insults and fear. It is an entirely self serving act when a man tells a woman not to fear men. They don’t care about women’s safety or peace; they care how women’s suspicion going into any interaction with them is affecting a man’s ability to do what he wants with her later.

I have never seen a man say 'not all men' and come from a place of 'I want women to feel safe because I want them to be happy'. It always comes from a place of 'I want women to feel safe because their fear is inconvenient to me; it prevents them from going on dates with me, it makes them question my intentions when we are alone, it makes them more apt to notice when they are being treated unfairly, it makes them less likely to leave themselves vulnerable to me emotionally and physically, and it makes me uncomfortable that I may have to tell other men to behave, so I’d rather continue to harass the women who are already afraid of me by silencing them.' 

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Might be worth a shot....

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Needed to research this for my boss. Somebody needs to put her crap in order and since she'd rather pay someone else to do it, might as well be me!

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One of the many places on my list to visit. Every one of those stupid, "where should you live" quizzes tells me I should move here. I guess now I see why.

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Always awesome.

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Bashar claims to be an alien. Think of that what you wish, but he drops some serious truth in this video.

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Gosh, I love this guy's videos. Listen to this and ask yourself, how hard is it for you to say no? It's one of the first words we learn as a kid, but the hardest one to say as an adult! Be the first one you need to please. Everyone else comes after.

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I've uploaded many a ridiculous video on facebook, but never have I been so brave as to upload it onto youtube. Cross your fingers for me.

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I, Deanne Victor

Make a commitment to myself,

To spend the rest of my natural life improving myself and raising my vibration that I have no time for worry,  judgement, criticism, whining and complaining;

To forgive, release and let go of my attachment to any past struggles and allow every challenge life sends my way to make me better not bitter.

Starting now, I make a commitment to let go of what’s behind me and start appreciating what’s in front of me;

To let go of all the pointless drama, all the toxic relationships, thoughts and behaviors that are present in my life and to constantly shift my focus from the bad on to the good;

To make room in my heart for love, happiness, peace and tranquility and to create my life from a place of infinite choices and possibilities – the present moment, and no longer from a place of limitations – the past.

I commit to staying true to myself at all times and to never betray myself just so I can please other people.

I commit myself to give up on toxic thought, behaviors and relationships but never on myself and my dreams.

Starting now and starting today, I will  begin rebuilding my life and to make it ridiculously amazing.

Deanne Victor
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