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JC Johnson
Humanitarian, nature lover, traveller, father, writer, nominated best author of the year,coach, fencer, formula one fan, and advocate for women's rights. www.thisisjcjohnson.com #thisisjcjohnson
Humanitarian, nature lover, traveller, father, writer, nominated best author of the year,coach, fencer, formula one fan, and advocate for women's rights. www.thisisjcjohnson.com #thisisjcjohnson
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I’m completely fearless of my past present and future. I have no walls or concepts that define my happiness and I don’t cling to things... I’m simply just HAPPY :0) 

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A warrior is always ready to face any situation of life, without any fear or getting tensed out of situations. A warrior has a complete control over himself, and when he acts, and anytime he looses his control, he gets back to his cave, to check and evaluate his actions, and where he has faltered. He works on himself, to correct his error, and again gets back on his path, to proceed further in life.
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Why do I keep ending up in bad relationships… hear it exclusively from the horses's mouth!

Hi, I’m Charming Charlie.  When you meet me you will think you have won the lottery, I’ll make you tingle with excitement, and even if you’re in a relationship, I’ll make you question your fidelity.  You’ll be so intrigued by my persona and my ability to make you feel so good about yourself.  You’ll see characteristics in me that you cannot quite put your finger on, but the pull or the force of magnetic attraction that I emit is bigger than anything you’ve ever felt before.

In the beginning stages, you won’t stop telling your friends and family about me and how you can’t believe that I am interested in you.  It is this apparent interest that now blinds you and continues to give you that warm, fuzzy feeling.  I am also the master of subtle persuasion, which I use in my words; sometimes by text but I prefer to whisper them in your ears. 

 
You’ll be desperate to get to know me, just to have a few moments in my company; but of course you won’t want to look too far ahead… you’re just happy living in the moment of ecstasy.  However, you have made a fundamental error, you have mistaken my charm for ‘Mr Nice guy’.  ‘I’, Charming Charlie, am Charming for a reason, I always had a motive to get you under my spell; but this was obscured to you before.  You may have begun to feel that something isn’t right….and you were correct!  You’ve only been aware of the nice guy.  You’ve interpreted the nice guy as someone who is amusing and fun but the charm I exuded was actually MANIPULATION… I now have you exactly where I want you! 
 
This is where everything changes, I now turn into Controlling Charlie. Yes, that’s right: my transition from Charming Charlie into Controlling Charlie is almost invisible.

Now, if you’re still unsure, let me give you some clear examples of my patterns of behaviour…

All of I sudden I seem to have a problem with the way you dress; yes, that same sexy dress that I met you in (which was a part of why I found you so sexy!)  I no longer want you to wear it.  In fact, I no longer want you to wear anything like it.  If you try to insist you are, I will subtly, or at times blatantly, suggest that you are wearing it to meet other men or that you look a slag!  Now, at first you will say to yourself this is ridiculous, but a part of you doesn’t want to upset that warm fuzzy feeling.  It’s not a big thing to sacrifice for the man you love!  That’s right I say to myself “I AM IN CONTROL!!!”

But not long down the road… I suggest you have a roving eye and that you’re constantly looking and flirting with other guys.  I will bang on about it so much that you even start wondering if you are really doing that.  It may even get to the point that when we are out together, you will be scared to even look around or take your eyes of me.  It may even get to the point where you have enough of this paranoia, but I will come in with manipulation right on cue. “Babe I’m sorry. I love you so much. Maybe I’m being paranoid. I’m going to sort it all out”. You agree and I walk away thinking consciously or subconsciously  “I AM STILL IN CONTROL”
 
Here’s one of my favourites –

We have a silly disagreement that in reality is not that serious but I magnify it by x5, I stop talking to you for days.  You make so many attempts to talk to me, but I don’t  respond. I walk pass you in the house or in the street, if we have friends over, I will act as  cool as ice and be happy and social. You may think I’ve calmed down; but then you try to say something to me and I just ignore you, after some time you think I’m not even trying anymore.  Shortly after, I decide to start talking to you again and you’re happy it’s all over.  But what I didn’t tell you, was that I sensed I HAD to start talking to you at this point as I may have lost you (of course I would never admit it). This was all about control.  If I’m honest, the argument was not really over what I made you think it was!  It could well have been over something as trivial as you going out when I didn’t want you to;  but I wouldn’t admit that.  Anyway, I AM STILL IN CONTROL.

Even though I don’t say it, you are my possession.  I will slowly isolate you from your family and friends.  I will convince you that all we need is each other.  I will make you believe that I am your big, strong knight in shining armour - always there to look after you and to sort out any problems that arise. You may even have you own dreams in life, but I will slowly convince you that they are not even that important.  Of course, I won’t admit to you that I see these things as a threat to my hold over you!  In fact, I might even start to tell you that you’re getting fat or you’re ugly and no other man would want you or even give you a second look.  Before you know it, your once high self-esteem and strong personality has dwindled away and you have become a woman who feels trapped and dependent on Charming Charlie! You finally feel like the life force has been drained out of you.  You may even get a snap shot of the reality and make a sudden move to end the relationship, but hey, I’ve already planned for that!  I will confess my undying love for you and tell you that I wouldn‘t be able to live without you.  You see, I know your emotions will again start to distort the facts.  You will start to feel guilty and convince yourself that I really, really love just you. When you decide not to leave (as I had already anticipated) I smile inside. I AM STILL IN CONTROL.

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Physical attractions are more common, but a mental connection is rare. Once you've had the.....


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Equilibrium exists in everything, find the balance!

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Simon Cowell's letter of wisdom to his younger self!

Dear Simon,
First things first, how are you? On second thoughts, don't answer that... Read this powerful letter http://bit.ly/1q7xYiA
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5 powerful anchors that will help YOU achieve equilibrium and peace of mind.... http://bit.ly/thewisdomblog
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The Greatest Advice Ever Told...
The Greatest Advice Ever Told... (Use This!)
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