Hi, I am a big guy with a big heart that has been beat up pretty good, but it still works. I think. I have a daughter I adore. I am in the last months of a divorce and am reeling form the bull that has been said about me. It is now my opinion that girls are not sugar and spice and everything nice, I have been used by others to get ahead. All this has darkened my outlook on people. I am less trusting. I take pride in being the only one around quite like me, I don't have much and think I will keep it that way. Then people will take me for who I am not what I have or can do for them.