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Hello Vallrna you are right, but it is very difficult to change the attitude, take a snake you can feed him with milk or any thing which he likes but still he bites becaze that is his attitude it is not immpossible change attitude but it is. very difficult
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How To Communicate Effectively

People often don't believe, dismiss, or ignore what we say. So if our words aren't the best way to communicate, how do we communicate effectively?

The most effective way to communicate is with our actions.

Actions, not words - that's how to communicate effectively.

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Very true statement! Fascinating - which option would you take? I would take the second!
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Can you say what is fear. In my mind fear is the frist step of lie.
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Can Men Change?

Many men tell me in counseling that they can't change. "This is just who I am. You can't change your DNA, right?" So can men change? I tell them that I believe men can change, and that changing their thoughts, feelings or behavior has nothing to do with their DNA.

Maybe a better way to tell men they can change is to tell them don't worry about changing -- Just Grow Up. Growing up is actually a win-win for them and those around them. They really should try it.

If there ever was a message that needs to spread, this is sure it. Not just so men can change, but women too. In fact, we all probably have some place in our lives where we need to change by growing up (me too). Can men change? Yes, by growing up.

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How Our Minds Justify Actions

When someone wants to justify their actions they can get pretty creative with the rationale, excuse making or blaming. The bottom line is that if any of us wants to justify our actions, we can twist our thinking into making it so.

Let's all remember that we don't have to justify actions when we do the right thing - only when we do the wrong thing. And wrong is wrong no matter how we justify our actions.

Life's just a whole lot easier when we Quit Trying To Make Wrong Right.

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Dear Vallena this is the two sides of same coin it depends on a person which side he choose.
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Vallena I love your posts becaze you are clear hearted women as well as front spoken. With best wishes. Love you.
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Absolutely!
 
How To Communicate Effectively

People often don't believe, dismiss, or ignore what we say. So if our words aren't the best way to communicate, how do we communicate effectively?

The most effective way to communicate is with our actions.

Actions, not words - that's how to communicate effectively.

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#communication   #communicationtips   #listentothis  Image: http://goo.gl/Kaqhn
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Amen ain't that the truth
 
Do People Want The Truth or Lies?

Truth or Lies - do people really want to hear the truth? 

It seems a lot of people would rather be comforted with a lie than risk the possibility of being hurt by the truth. I see this a lot in personal relationships. When hearing the truth, people often turn on the defenses and deny, attack, or shift the focus somewhere else.
 
Truth or Lies? The truth could hurt more, but lies definitely hurt a lot longer.

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That's so true
 
How To Communicate Effectively

People often don't believe, dismiss, or ignore what we say. So if our words aren't the best way to communicate, how do we communicate effectively?

The most effective way to communicate is with our actions.

Actions, not words - that's how to communicate effectively.

Share If You Agree.

#communication   #communicationtips   #listentothis  Image: http://goo.gl/Kaqhn
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Action speak louder then words 
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We would choose our words with more care.
 
"Words Will Never Hurt Me" - Yea Right

You know the nursery rhyme, "Stick and stones will break my bones, but words will never hurt me"? Could there be a bigger lie than this? I can't believe that this is what so many of us were taught.

We ought to learn, "Words cut like a knife." Or maybe, "Words can cut, but they also can heal."

We all need to be conscious all the time of how easily our words can become like jagged glass, a knife, or even a club to someone else's spirit. And hopefully use that awareness to choose our words more carefully and wisely.

"Words will never hurt me" - false. "Words can cut, but they also can heal."#truth

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