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Emma Luxton
Lifestyle blogger at Essays and Wine
Lifestyle blogger at Essays and Wine


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2 years of dating: what I've learnt
Well let's start with the key point; it's shit.  The past two years of dating have brought me more sadness than happiness, whether that just means I've been doing it wrong I don't know, but it's definitely not been a bundle of laughs and good feelings.  But...

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You're back.   You saw your moment and crawled your way back in, slowly at first, but I saw you. I knew what it meant and I didn't stop you. I guess I hoped you wouldn't be here to stay.   You were supposed to be gone for good. In fact, it's a talent, you k...

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Handjobs, period sex and a finger up the bum - the Scarlet Ladies sex panel
A Tuesday evening for me usually consists of nothing more than dinner in front of the tv before climbing into bed for a few hours of social media scrolling, any improvement to my weekday evening is always appreciated.  So I was happy to be invited to spend ...

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I'm not a nice, sweet, good girl - but that's more than ok
I'm a nice person, and I'm a good person, but those are not my key identifiers. I don't think anyone who knows me would pick nice and good if they were asked to describe me in three words - loud, confident and sassy are probably much more likely to come up....

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Why you shouldn't be afraid to play alone this Valentines Day
My first sex toy was a mini bullet vibrator from Ann Summers at around age 16. I was slightly terrified of what to expect, not having had much sexual experience with guys and only a bit of tentative play with myself. It's save to say I was blown away, and e...

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My Magic Number
Three. My magic number is 3. No, it's not the number of people I've had sex with (none of your business) or the number of relationships I've had (one), or even the number of people I've loved in a romantic way (also one). My magic number is the number of pe...

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My top 9 podcasts
I spend a lot of time in my car, driving to and from work, this could very easily be wasted time just spent listening to the radio or music, so for the past few months I've been trying to make the most of the time.  To do that I've been listening to podcast...

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I have casual sex, and it's none of your business
My name is Emma, and I have casual sex. Yep, I'm one of those people. I'm sure you know the ones, maybe you're one too, or maybe you're friends with one. I'm talking about the people who are comfortable having sex without an emotional connection, and usuall...

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The year of me
It's here bitches. The year of me.  2017 is the year I'm going to start doing things for me. Last year was an up and down one, but I feel like I made progress in finally feeling like myself again, so this year it's time to step it up a notch and really make...

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Why I risked it for a guy
So, last year I put myself out there, I risked it for a guy, and on the 1st of January things didn't exactly go my way.  Normally I guess this would be the part where I tell you it wasn't worth it, and guys suck and you deserve more than they give, but I'm ...
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