I want to say this right now, just like I was told when i first started using the internet:
Using your real details on the internet is a risk, you open yourself up to all sorts of problems, esp if you have problems IRL and use the internet to escape the hectic crap in your life.
The generation under us, all the little kids, all of your kids are at risk to predators, pedophiles and other weirdo's on the internet thanks to company's like Facebook & Google... But FFS I can even have my real name; Vertex Draco on Facebook... +Google Developers
I hope you realize that the name policy that you are enforcing is a personal security risk
for a lot of us... I don't know how you sleep at night.