I am mother of three children and work full time as an operating room nurse. I am madly in love with a married man and my boyfriend (he's married to me). I have been a registered republican and democrat. I believe that moderation is key to our survival in all areas of life. I want to not spend more than I make and balance my needs over my wants judiciously. I want to be comfortable enough to enjoy the time have with my family. Let' s face: life is full of the unexpected and you never know when you are going to run into that huge cliff and have to decide whether you are going to climb up, scale down, or jump with your eyes closed and pray for the best.