'While I understand and agree with number 3, how will that happen fluidly if whenever this gets pointed out, lots of "gamers" automatically get upset and vitriolic to whomever says it?"
I guess people need to keep on speaking up until they're willing to listen. One would also need to avoid making the same mistake as them and not be vitriolic.
The entire anti-SJW thing is infecting every medium and I'm getting more and more sick of it. The Hugo more or less got hijacked by the puppies for example and it's all due to anti-SJW folk riling people up who often aren't even part of the community.
They're just a bunch of people who seem to blindly follow a narrative that their ideology is under attack and that they're not being represented in the media. Be it books, games, tv shows, movies etc.
There's little ple for nuned discussions and ideas anymore. It's all about creating angry mobs and attacking those you perceive are against you.