We are human. We make mistakes. In relationships, we cannot use the excuse a mistake was made....if its continued for any duration of time. The word mistake, cannot be used. Should not be used. Mess might cover it, don't know?
This Lady over There has it right...Quit all the whining, grab your partner and go have sex until you cant so much as mumble a word....then re-evaluate?...And see where all the attitude is then?...lol