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男人城府的修练(图)
2013-01-20 13:40 来源: 网文

一:沉稳

(1)不要随便显露你的情绪。

(2)不要逢人就诉说你的困难和遭遇。

(3)在征询别人的意见之前,自己先思考,但不要先讲。

(4)不要一有机会就唠叨你的不满。

(5)重要的决定尽量有别人商量,最好隔一天再发布。

(6)讲话不要有任何的慌张,走路也是。

(7)自信是好,但是别忽略任何人的想法。

(8)人无高低,不要一副拽拽的样子,对人对事,别忘了礼貌。你没有比任何人优秀。

二:细心

(1)对身边发生的事情,常思考它们的因果关系。

(2)对做不到位的问题,要发掘它们的根本症结。

(3)对习以为常的做事方法,要有改进或优化的建议。

(4)做什么事情都要养成有条不紊和井然有序的习惯。

(5)经常去找几个别人看不出来的毛病或弊端。

(6)自己要随时随地对有所不足的地方补位。

三:胆识

(1)不要常用缺乏自信的词句

(2)不要常常反悔,轻易推翻已经决定的事。

(3)在众人争执不休时,不要没有主见。

(4)整体氛围低落时,你要乐观、阳光。

(5)做任何事情都要用心,因为有人在看着你。

(6)事情不顺的时候,歇口气,重新寻找突破口,就结束也要干净利落。

四:大度

(1)不要刻意把有可能是夥伴的人变成对手。

(2)对别人的小过失、小错误不要斤斤计较。

(3)在金钱上要大方,学习三施(财施、法施、无畏施)

(4)不要有权力的傲慢和知识的偏见。

(5)任何成果和成就都应和别人分享。

五:诚信

(1)做不到的事情不要说,说了就努力做到。

(2)虚的口号或标语不要常挂嘴上。

(3)停止一切“不道德”的手段。

(4)耍弄小聪明,要不得!

六:担当

(1)检讨任何过失的时候,先从自身或自己人开始反省。

(2)事情结束后,先审查过错,再列述功劳。

(3)一个计划,要统筹全局,规划未来。

(4)勇于承担责任所造成的损失。

七:内涵

(1)学习各方面的知识,虚心观察周围的事物。眼界宽阔。

(2)瞭解自己,培养属于自己的审美观。

(3)笑对生活。懒惰要不得。培养健康的生活习惯。

(4)不要盲目的做任何事。要有目标。

(5)不仅仅只关注内在美,外在美也很重要。

(6)不要整天的对着电脑,玩着无聊的东西。

(7)理智的判断,学会控制情绪。
 
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TOUCHING STORY OF TWO DOGS IN CHINA

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A dog desperately tries to remove his dead mate after she is killed by a car then stands guard by her side for six hours. In a moving display of devotion continues to lick her head in a bid to revive her. These heartbreaking pictures taken in Zhangzhou, in China's Fujian Province, show the animal carefully nudging the female dog after she was hit and killed by a car.

After he fails to wake her, the male refuses to leave and stays within feet of his mate for six hours. The male was seen repeatedly licking the face of dead dog and keeping a watchful eye on her as he dodged the oncoming traffic. But he never strayed more than a short distance from her side.

When he got tired the dog lay down next to her as he kept up his vigil for hours. Xiao Wu, a butcher on the street, said: 'He stayed beside her the whole day, keeping licking her and pushing her, trying to wake her up. It's very touching.' Xiao said after the accident he saw the male dog running around and trying to 'hug' the female dog with his forelegs.

The butcher added: 'Then he pushed her with his head, and licked her face. I even saw tears' According to Xiao the female dog was a stray he had recently started to feed. Then a week ago the male dog turned up. He said: 'Then I realised she had a boyfriend. They were together all the time, playing and in love.'
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Six CRAZY Android phones that will change everything this year.

This year, the mobile phone becomes something entirely different, and will gain powers and capabilities beyond science fiction. Here's what's coming this year:

* A phone that transforms into a tablet, which transforms into a laptop!
* A phone that becomes a Minority Report TV remote!
* A phone that's as powerful as a PC!
* Software that transforms any Android phone into a PC!
* A phone that gives you 3D without glasses!
* A phone with a built-in PowerPoint projector!

All these phones are coming this year!

Get the details: http://www.datamation.com/mobile-wireless/rise-of-the-extreme-iphone-killer-super-phones-1.html
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Learn what a nanosecond is and how to give it to someone. Grace Hopper is so interesting and hilarious.

Now, some of you think you know what a nanosecond is, but have you held one?

Grace Hopper is a Naval Rear Admiral and a computer science god as she created the first compiler, also she has a Navy Destroyer named after her. #physics #navy
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一位年轻医生自述:有多少癌症病人成了唐僧肉。。。震惊了!!!


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出于求生的本能,每一个癌症患者都不甘心坐以待毙。殊不知,他们的求生欲望与求治要求,竟让自己成为某些不良医院各科室之间抢夺的“唐僧肉”.....一位年轻医生的自述,让我们看到了其中的秘密。

2009年,我从天津医科大学肿瘤专业研究生毕业后,幸运地成为山东省某三甲医院肿瘤科的医生。

工作第一天,我穿上白大褂,和主任一起查房。查房一上午,共有40多个癌症病人,他们病情各不大相同,相同的是,对我们的话都言听计从。

第二天上午,我接诊了一个肝癌晚期的老人。看他的影像片子,癌细胞已经全身转移,没有治疗价值了。再说,从老人的穿着来看,家境并不太好,更没有必要白花钱了。出于好心,我把老人的女儿叫到办公室,建议她放弃治疗。老人的女儿放声大哭,伤心地把老人带走了。不料,一个星期之后,我意外地发现老人竟然被收住院了!护士长告诉我老人回家后不甘心“等死”,把自己的房子卖了30万,又挂了肿瘤科的一个专家号求治,当即就被专家收住院了。护士长还悄悄告诉我:老人还在病房里说你医德不行,自己没本事治他的病,就让他回家等死!

2009年11月底,我们肿瘤科发奖金时,平均一个人才2000多元!主任关上门给我们开了个秘密会议:“咱们医院实行的是绩效考核,收人减去成本再乘以提成的百分比,才是科室的奖金。”他故意顿了顿,说:“不需要我多解释了吧?你们用几元钱的便宜药,那是你们的自由,不过,你不能把自己当成菩萨下凡,让大家陪你喝西北风”主任的话音一落,大家的目光就齐刷刷地投向我,我脸上立即火辣辣的......”

这件事没过几天,病房就住进一个患前列腺癌的离休干部,癌细胞也已经转移腹腔了。有了前面的教训,我试探性地找他的妻子谈话:“我建议用相对好一点的药物,因为这样可以提高病人的生存质量......”我的话音未落,他的妻子就鸡啄米似点头:“什么药好就用什么药,我舍得给我们家老张花钱!”有了这句话,我放开了手脚,什么药贵上什么药。最后,老人在病房里住了两个月,共花费了40万元,最总还是死了。

我心里有鬼,自觉愧对老人。可令我哭笑不得的是,家属办完后事,经专门给我送来一面锦旗,说我把病人当亲人,努力提高了癌症晚期病人的生活质量。

2010年7月,我接诊了一个早期肺癌病人,觉得有手术指征,就介绍给了胸外科一个医生。没想到,病人手术之后,胸外科医生专门请我吃了顿饭,并给了我一个500元的红包。我不要,他却说:“这是你应该得的。以后你那边有要做化疗的病人,也”介绍“给你。我们俩长期合作!”然后,他还以过来人的身份“教育”我:“你是刚毕业不久的学生,现在摸清楚肿瘤科的工作流程没有?简单来说就是这样:来个癌症病人,先介绍到外科给他们做手术,让外科把手术的钱赚到了,再把病人转到化疗科化疗,然后再转到放疗科放疗,等着些科室的钱都赚到了,再把病人扔到中医科喝中药。”

接下来的一件事,让我终于验证了这位外科医生的话。有一个胃癌晚期病人,癌细胞已经腹膜转移。可还是被转到普外科做了手术,术后又转到肿瘤科化疗,放疗科放疗,中药科喝中药,如此折腾3个月,病人就死了。我曾偷偷调出病人的影像资料,一看就发现没有手术指征。

更加可笑的是,有一回,有过一次合作经历的那位胸外科医生给我转来一个肺癌术后病人。病人70多岁,早期肺癌,即使不做化疗也可以长期生存。不料,我好心告诉他可以保守治疗的时候,他却质问我:“癌症手术后化疗放疗是常规治疗,如果听你的保守治疗,我的癌症复发了你负责?”其实,化疗有很大的副作用,尤其是对这种年老体弱的癌症病人来说,副作用更是致命的。勉强挺过4个月疗程的化疗,老人的免疫力就急剧下降,肺癌也随之复发,并出现了脑转移。在家属的强烈要求下,我们又给老人做了伽马刀手术,结果导致了更大范围的肿瘤转移.......如此折腾了一年多,老人终于在痛苦中死去了!

医院不扶伤,

医生改经商。

患者求活命,

钱财被套光。

医师,本是人类最崇高的职业,现在中国却......,根子在哪里?

转自人人网
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