This is so right however a mature man would know his limitation and not marry a women he needs because it seems like the right thing to do while keep up the pursuit or search for the women he wants. This would make your wife feel like you really dont want her but out of convenience he chose you. Not Good
No one said what you need you can't roll over and look at it. Some form of attraction and compatibility is crucial for most to be content. I personally recommend love its a blast!