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Aw man, this was bugging me for YEARS where that catchphrase came from! haha
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I think this is why people become quickly enamored by and quickly disillusioned by polyamory.  (which is pronounced as am, not Aim).  To be successful in a polyamorous relationship requires much more effort than a mono relationship.  And while it's true that removal of jealousy is a cornerstone of polyamory, it is also a cornerstone in a healthy monogamous relationship as well.  In general you will find more open minded people in the polyamory community than in the regular population, but you're also dealing with a wide spectrum of people who will have varying levels of being able to conduct themselves successfully in a polyamorous relationships.  It also comes with its own unique set of challenges.  Scheduling, that's probably the biggest one.   Transference is also a big one.  If there does become an emotional issue with one partner, it is hard not to transfer that over to another partner, or to even respect the privacy of the first partner by not discussing it.  Especially since the second partner will know something is off.  
That said, for the few years I was involved in this lifestyle, I was successful at being upfront, honest, and keeping appropriate boundaries and scheduling.  My partners were not always as successful.  There was definitely relationships where jealousy was not a factor, and some where it definitely WAS a factor.  I found that not scheduling properly can unleash a jealous rant even from people you think have it under control.  Only one of my partners continued in polyamory and practices it still.  The rest, like myself, went back to monogamy.  I think more key than having a definition, is to be very clear and very honest what it is you are seeking from a relationship before getting involved in one.  The simple act of sitting down and talking it all out, can help save you from week, months, even years of heartache.  Now, THAT is something I wish I had known ten years ago.  We as humans tend to complicate things that are actually very simple.  
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I <3 you, cheeky monkey.
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I love you even more for not being a whovian. 
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Where was the majority of this footage shot?  It shows two guys on stage that aren't Alex...??
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Jealousy exists in all type of relationships.  (Open or closed).  They way to remove jealousy is to become involved in a healthy relationship.  Open or closed.  The mere opening of a relationship does not equate to a removal of jealousy.   #AdviceYouWillHaveWishedYouListenedToSxMonthsFromNow  
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