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April Blasi
I am a young independent women who believes honesty is key. I always have been brutally honest with all my girl friends and I decided to share my honesty with the rest of the world. We can all thank my father ♡
I am a young independent women who believes honesty is key. I always have been brutally honest with all my girl friends and I decided to share my honesty with the rest of the world. We can all thank my father ♡
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Why I got into a serious relationship at 20
It was never the need for security of a male in my life, as I always had my father to support me on every decision I made. It wasn't the need for depending on someone to turn too because again I had my father for that. It was wanting to share every huge experience of my life with someone, and it wasn't the experiences of the nights out partying. It was the little things, the simple things in life I wanted to share an experience with someone at a very young age. I knew I wanted to get married one day, but I didn't know how my wedding was going to look, what dress I would want, I couldn't picture all that like most woman growing up, until I meet Matt. 

He is a blue eyed, genuine, independent, strong man, and more than I could ever hope for. Of course, we are not the world’s most perfect couple, but we are pretty damn close. After meeting Matt in the most unpredictable situation, we instantly clicked, it was a bit like a fairy tale but we never expected that, we knew from the beginning at some point we would bicker over our disagreements and find things that are annoying about each other but we knew we could live with each others flaws and never live without one another. 

There are five simple reasons why I got into a serious relationship at 20:

I knew what I wanted in life, not materialistically like a perfect ring, a huge wedding or the newest purse, but things like a great job (not the money but the enjoyment), a roof over my head and food in my stomach. I knew that to get these things I needed to work my ass off, quit the partying and be able to support myself with no one else's help. At 20 I landed a great job as a Business Development Manager, I made decent money but for the most part I enjoyed coming to work everyday. At the age of 20 I was blessed to be asked to move in with Matt and make our house into a beautiful home. At the age of 20, I had my shit together, I was not out partying until 2am, going to work hung over or sleeping until noon on a weekend. I was 20 and had a sense of security for myself, I knew who I was and I knew I would find out more about myself as I got older. 

If it walks like a man, talks like a man, it doesn't necessarily mean hes a man. A man, in my point of view, is someone who can be independent, who can do things on his own, without you. Yes, without you, you don't need someone clinging to you 24/7 that is annoying (and you don't need to rely on a man to make you happy) but you know the time spent together is enjoyable and easy to cherish. Although Matthew and I live together, it was not a game changer, compared to the beginning of our relationship having to set up dates to see each other. We still do that, because we have a life together yes but simply have our own lives (work, activities, hobbies, etc..). Its easier of course but we always do our own thing, Matthew loves to hunt and I love to be at the house cleaning or decorating. 

He knew what he wanted in life and it was similar to my aspirations in life. Matt does not want to begin being a dad at 33 and I don’t want kids until i'm done with college. I know you can never plan life because I sure did not plan this one out, it kind of happened I kind of met Matt and we worked. I didn't expect it, I was not looking and I just so happened to be blessed with one of the greatest men, in my eyes, walking this earth. (along with my father of course)

My family loves him and his family loves me, more so our family’s are kind of the same. We decided whose houses we are going to on  holidays, and we both are 100% family oriented and know what being a family means and are more than excited to start one of our own.

Neither of us EXPECT anything out of one another, Matt doesn't expect me to wear makeup everyday, dress up or act a certain way. I do not expect Matt to bring me flowers, give me back rubs or sit through a chic flick without making sarcastic comments. But we do appreciate the love from one another, the sacrifices we have made for each other and the support we give each other. 

Everyday is a learning lesson in a relationship, especially in one where you see a future together. You find out whether or not you can live with this person or if you’d rather strangle them. Nothing is perfect, not one thing, its hard at times, you feel doubtful, you feel insecure of the way you look, the size of pants you are compared to the pretty waitress at the local brewery (he is not looking to be with her anyways, people look at other people and if he is looking to be with her, you will find someone else). But you know one thing you need to know is that it matters, everything does. He fell in love with you for a reason, and it was not a stupid one, he wanted you to be his girl, you were so confident when you first meet, don't let things bring you down, do not think he expects anything out of you because he most likely doesn't, besides you just being there. 

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Love, love, love!

This all started when I posted a "Facebook Status",
"Ladies need to stop worrying about your man cheating when he's out or away from you for one you need to trust and not freak out if he's texting other friends that are girls men like confident women and you nagging bitching and moaning will provoke it. Secondly if you can not trust him then find someone you can. And third honestly people are gonna do what they want you bitching is not going to change anyone's decision"

One of my girls friends from high school stated I needed to blog, so here I am....

Perfect Guy:
Lets be honest here, EVERY women wants the "PERFECT MAN' We all know what I am talking about, Tall, Dark, Built, good in bed, wants kids, great job, perfect mindset, just all around handsome. BUT lets get real your never going to find that! And I mean NEVER EVER (unless your in fantasy land, well I am here to slap you out of that fake world!)

1. You need to respect yourself,
Meaning love yourself! DO NOT get all slutted up on the weekends to go out with your girls expecting to find prince charming, all your ASSets hanging out, its NOT going to happen. We all know how men think and that says "one night stand" completely. Demand a proper date, the old fashion one where a man holds the door, picks you up at your place at 8 and treats you like a well respected lady.

2.Find Yourself,
Be Independent, Confident and DO NOT let anyone walk all over you. I mean NO ONE, What is the point this may sound cliché but you only live once. Being independent shows all the confidence in the world that men love! Oh, by the way take a compliment for once damit! Nothing pisses me off more than hearing a women say OH MY GOD no way (in a total valley girl kim kar fashion voice), after a guy compliments them, I don't like this and that about myself! SERIOUSLY stop it! I can't deny that I haven't been there before, but that's why I'm here writing this to help you love your unique fine self! ♡

3. Do not stop for ANYTHING!
Push for what you deserve, you know what you want. Enough with the douchebag guys who have side chick's and no goals in life. Their only goal is to be at the next big party to hit on and bring home some girl, that I was telling you not to be, in tip number 1. YOU are better than that and you know it. Ten times better . Women like you and I who can stay strong, know what we deserve, have confidence and morals will find "the one" "mr.perfect" "prince charming" believe me.

We all know the truth and give our girl friends the best advice, we are never going to tell them to Go for the douchebag. It's time to start living by our inspirational advice that up lifts our girl friends out of the tub of chocolate ice cream. I have and I have prince charming. 

This all started when I posted a "Facebook Status",
"Ladies need to stop worrying about your man cheating when he's out or away from you for one you need to trust and not freak out if he's texting other friends that are girls men like confident women and you nagging bitching and moaning will provoke it. Secondly if you can not trust him then find someone you can. And third honestly people are gonna do what they want you bitching is not going to change anyone's decision"

One of my girls friends from high school stated I needed to blog, so here I am....

Perfect Guy:
Lets be honest here, EVERY women wants the "PERFECT MAN' We all know what I am talking about, Tall, Dark, Built, good in bed, wants kids, great job, perfect mindset, just all around handsome. BUT lets get real your never going to find that! And I mean NEVER EVER (unless your in fantasy land, well I am here to slap you out of that fake world!)

1. You need to respect yourself,
Meaning love yourself! DO NOT get all slutted up on the weekends to go out with your girls expecting to find prince charming, all your ASSets hanging out, its NOT going to happen. We all know how men think and that says "one night stand" completely. Demand a proper date, the old fashion one where a man holds the door, picks you up at your place at 8 and treats you like a well respected lady.

2.Find Yourself,
Be Independent, Confident and DO NOT let anyone walk all over you. I mean NO ONE, What is the point this may sound cliché but you only live once. Being independent shows all the confidence in the world that men love! Oh, by the way take a compliment for once damit! Nothing pisses me off more than hearing a women say OH MY GOD no way (in a total valley girl kim kar fashion voice), after a guy compliments them, I don't like this and that about myself! SERIOUSLY stop it! I can't deny that I haven't been there before, but that's why I'm here writing this to help you love your unique fine self! ♡

3. Do not stop for ANYTHING!
Push for what you deserve, you know what you want. Enough with the douchebag guys who have side chick's and no goals in life. Their only goal is to be at the next big party to hit on and bring home some girl, that I was telling you not to be, in tip number 1. YOU are better than that and you know it. Ten times better . Women like you and I who can stay strong, know what we deserve, have confidence and morals will find "the one" "mr.perfect" "prince charming" believe me.

We all know the truth and give our girl friends the best advice, we are never going to tell them to Go for the douchebag. It's time to start living by our inspirational advice that up lifts our girl friends out of the tub of chocolate ice cream. I have and I have prince charming. 

This all started when I posted a "Facebook Status",
"Ladies need to stop worrying about your man cheating when he's out or away from you for one you need to trust and not freak out if he's texting other friends that are girls men like confident women and you nagging bitching and moaning will provoke it. Secondly if you can not trust him then find someone you can. And third honestly people are gonna do what they want you bitching is not going to change anyone's decision"

One of my girls friends from high school stated I needed to blog, so here I am....

Perfect Guy:
Lets be honest here, EVERY women wants the "PERFECT MAN' We all know what I am talking about, Tall, Dark, Built, good in bed, wants kids, great job, perfect mindset, just all around handsome. BUT lets get real your never going to find that! And I mean NEVER EVER (unless your in fantasy land, well I am here to slap you out of that fake world!)

1. You need to respect yourself,
Meaning love yourself! DO NOT get all slutted up on the weekends to go out with your girls expecting to find prince charming, all your ASSets hanging out, its NOT going to happen. We all know how men think and that says "one night stand" completely. Demand a proper date, the old fashion one where a man holds the door, picks you up at your place at 8 and treats you like a well respected lady.

2.Find Yourself,
Be Independent, Confident and DO NOT let anyone walk all over you. I mean NO ONE, What is the point this may sound cliché but you only live once. Being independent shows all the confidence in the world that men love! Oh, by the way take a compliment for once damit! Nothing pisses me off more than hearing a women say OH MY GOD no way (in a total valley girl kim kar fashion voice), after a guy compliments them, I don't like this and that about myself! SERIOUSLY stop it! I can't deny that I haven't been there before, but that's why I'm here writing this to help you love your unique fine self! ♡

3. Do not stop for ANYTHING!
Push for what you deserve, you know what you want. Enough with the douchebag guys who have side chick's and no goals in life. Their only goal is to be at the next big party to hit on and bring home some girl, that I was telling you not to be, in tip number 1. YOU are better than that and you know it. Ten times better . Women like you and I who can stay strong, know what we deserve, have confidence and morals will find "the one" "mr.perfect" "prince charming" believe me.

We all know the truth and give our girl friends the best advice, we are never going to tell them to Go for the douchebag. It's time to start living by our inspirational advice that up lifts our girl friends out of the tub of chocolate ice cream. I have and I have prince charming. 

This all started when I posted a "Facebook Status",
"Ladies need to stop worrying about your man cheating when he's out or away from you for one you need to trust and not freak out if he's texting other friends that are girls men like confident women and you nagging bitching and moaning will provoke it. Secondly if you can not trust him then find someone you can. And third honestly people are gonna do what they want you bitching is not going to change anyone's decision"

One of my girls friends from high school stated I needed to blog, so here I am....

Perfect Guy:
Lets be honest here, EVERY women wants the "PERFECT MAN' We all know what I am talking about, Tall, Dark, Built, good in bed, wants kids, great job, perfect mindset, just all around handsome. BUT lets get real your never going to find that! And I mean NEVER EVER (unless your in fantasy land, well I am here to slap you out of that fake world!)

1. You need to respect yourself,
Meaning love yourself! DO NOT get all slutted up on the weekends to go out with your girls expecting to find prince charming, all your ASSets hanging out, its NOT going to happen. We all know how men think and that says "one night stand" completely. Demand a proper date, the old fashion one where a man holds the door, picks you up at your place at 8 and treats you like a well respected lady.

2.Find Yourself,
Be Independent, Confident and DO NOT let anyone walk all over you. I mean NO ONE, What is the point this may sound cliché but you only live once. Being independent shows all the confidence in the world that men love! Oh, by the way take a compliment for once damit! Nothing pisses me off more than hearing a women say OH MY GOD no way (in a total valley girl kim kar fashion voice), after a guy compliments them, I don't like this and that about myself! SERIOUSLY stop it! I can't deny that I haven't been there before, but that's why I'm here writing this to help you love your unique fine self! ♡

3. Do not stop for ANYTHING!
Push for what you deserve, you know what you want. Enough with the douchebag guys who have side chick's and no goals in life. Their only goal is to be at the next big party to hit on and bring home some girl, that I was telling you not to be, in tip number 1. YOU are better than that and you know it. Ten times better . Women like you and I who can stay strong, know what we deserve, have confidence and morals will find "the one" "mr.perfect" "prince charming" believe me.

We all know the truth and give our girl friends the best advice, we are never going to tell them to Go for the douchebag. It's time to start living by our inspirational advice that up lifts our girl friends out of the tub of chocolate ice cream. I have and I have prince charming. 

This all started when I posted a "Facebook Status",
"Ladies need to stop worrying about your man cheating when he's out or away from you for one you need to trust and not freak out if he's texting other friends that are girls men like confident women and you nagging bitching and moaning will provoke it. Secondly if you can not trust him then find someone you can. And third honestly people are gonna do what they want you bitching is not going to change anyone's decision"

One of my girls friends from high school stated I needed to blog, so here I am....

Perfect Guy:
Lets be honest here, EVERY women wants the "PERFECT MAN' We all know what I am talking about, Tall, Dark, Built, good in bed, wants kids, great job, perfect mindset, just all around handsome. BUT lets get real your never going to find that! And I mean NEVER EVER (unless your in fantasy land, well I am here to slap you out of that fake world!)

1. You need to respect yourself,
Meaning love yourself! DO NOT get all slutted up on the weekends to go out with your girls expecting to find prince charming, all your ASSets hanging out, its NOT going to happen. We all know how men think and that says "one night stand" completely. Demand a proper date, the old fashion one where a man holds the door, picks you up at your place at 8 and treats you like a well respected lady.

2.Find Yourself,
Be Independent, Confident and DO NOT let anyone walk all over you. I mean NO ONE, What is the point this may sound cliché but you only live once. Being independent shows all the confidence in the world that men love! Oh, by the way take a compliment for once damit! Nothing pisses me off more than hearing a women say OH MY GOD no way (in a total valley girl kim kar fashion voice), after a guy compliments them, I don't like this and that about myself! SERIOUSLY stop it! I can't deny that I haven't been there before, but that's why I'm here writing this to help you love your unique fine self! ♡

3. Do not stop for ANYTHING!
Push for what you deserve, you know what you want. Enough with the douchebag guys who have side chick's and no goals in life. Their only goal is to be at the next big party to hit on and bring home some girl, that I was telling you not to be, in tip number 1. YOU are better than that and you know it. Ten times better . Women like you and I who can stay strong, know what we deserve, have confidence and morals will find "the one" "mr.perfect" "prince charming" believe me.

We all know the truth and give our girl friends the best advice, we are never going to tell them to Go for the douchebag. It's time to start living by our inspirational advice that up lifts our girl friends out of the tub of chocolate ice cream. I have and I have prince charming. 

15 more days to survive <3

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