This all started when I posted a "Facebook Status",
"Ladies need to stop worrying about your man cheating when he's out or away from you for one you need to trust and not freak out if he's texting other friends that are girls men like confident women and you nagging bitching and moaning will provoke it. Secondly if you can not trust him then find someone you can. And third honestly people are gonna do what they want you bitching is not going to change anyone's decision"
One of my girls friends from high school stated I needed to blog, so here I am....
Lets be honest here, EVERY women wants the "PERFECT MAN' We all know what I am talking about, Tall, Dark, Built, good in bed, wants kids, great job, perfect mindset, just all around handsome. BUT lets get real your never going to find that! And I mean NEVER EVER (unless your in fantasy land, well I am here to slap you out of that fake world!)
1. You need to respect yourself,
Meaning love yourself! DO NOT get all slutted up on the weekends to go out with your girls expecting to find prince charming, all your ASSets hanging out, its NOT going to happen. We all know how men think and that says "one night stand" completely. Demand a proper date, the old fashion one where a man holds the door, picks you up at your place at 8 and treats you like a well respected lady.
Be Independent, Confident and DO NOT let anyone walk all over you. I mean NO ONE, What is the point this may sound cliché but you only live once. Being independent shows all the confidence in the world that men love! Oh, by the way take a compliment for once damit! Nothing pisses me off more than hearing a women say OH MY GOD no way (in a total valley girl kim kar fashion voice), after a guy compliments them, I don't like this and that about myself! SERIOUSLY stop it! I can't deny that I haven't been there before, but that's why I'm here writing this to help you love your unique fine self! ♡
3. Do not stop for ANYTHING!
Push for what you deserve, you know what you want. Enough with the douchebag guys who have side chick's and no goals in life. Their only goal is to be at the next big party to hit on and bring home some girl, that I was telling you not to be, in tip number 1. YOU are better than that and you know it. Ten times better . Women like you and I who can stay strong, know what we deserve, have confidence and morals will find "the one" "mr.perfect" "prince charming" believe me.
We all know the truth and give our girl friends the best advice, we are never going to tell them to Go for the douchebag. It's time to start living by our inspirational advice that up lifts our girl friends out of the tub of chocolate ice cream. I have and I have prince charming.