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Todd Deutsch
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Psychotherapist & Life Consultant in Los Angeles, California.
Psychotherapist & Life Consultant in Los Angeles, California.

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How are you relating to your partner?

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A Mindful Relationship
Clear and authentic communication is essential for a healthy relationship. A mindful partnership involves a place of understanding from where an individual is coming from. Clear boundaries and a respective responsibility of each other, as being unique is ce...

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Relationship Tip of the Day for Parents:
Couples tend to not realize how shocking the first few months can be when having a new child as things between them become less and less positive and it is so easy for things to escalate and become negative. This trend can last months, years, and/or an entire relationship due to resentment and frustration about personal needs not being met by their partner. Communication is the main tool to overcome this difficult time. This period will not last forever and working as a team can go very far.

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Relationship Tip of the Day for Couples with Children:
Be aware of each other's emotions and needs. If your partner has had a particularly stressful day, offer to watch the baby or child so your partner can soak in the tub, watch a favorite TV show, or read a book for half an hour. Those soothing moments can make a huge difference as a parent and partner.
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Relationship Tip of the Day:
Positive Regard - People in healthy relationships tend to see negative things the other person has done as honest mistakes or due to difficult circumstances, and attribute positive things as the result of the other person just being a good person, due to hard work, or other positive character traits. 
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Relationship Tip of the Day:
If something is bothering you, tell your partner, but make sure you do it at the right time. Starting a discussion about who left the dirty dishes in the sink when your child is upset or when someone is on the way out of the house will solve nothing. Instead, plan a time to sit down together after the kids are asleep or when there is some free quiet time. Be honest with each other, but try to maintain a sense of humor. And keep in mind that sleep deprivation and stress can make you feel more irritable, so it may take extra effort to curb any tendency to be snappy.
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Reciprocity means that both people in a relationship are working on their stuff. If only one person is taking an interest, accepting and respecting, giving the benefit of the doubt, meeting the others' needs, providing positive interactions, and repairing ruptures, then the relationship likely has larger problems that need to be explored. A relationship is a partnership and needs to be worked on equally.

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Relationship Tip of the Day: Research shows that relationships are the most satisfying when there are quantitatively more positive interactions with the other person than negative. For some relationships there may be a large number of negative interactions, but as long as the number of positive interactions is a lot higher, satisfaction will remain high. 
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