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Nicola Anne Jones (Rev. Nicola)
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Don't you DARE call me Nikki....
Don't you DARE call me Nikki....

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Moving to day. Goodbye East Side, Goodbye Public Housing.

Hello West Side!

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Here is the thing about dating and sex in this day and age. I know 100% I can land someone who is mainstream hot. I know 100% I can land a Doctor or other proffesional. Heck I was involved with a Doctor who looked like Prince Harry, wanted to buy me things, and liked everything about me.

So don't think I choose someone because they deem to notice me despite my weight, or because they do things for me, or have money.

If I want someone I find them attractive based on their kind eyes and warm heart. The things we have in common, the intelligent conversations. How you make me laugh or smile.

Not how many women want to bang you, or what you can do for me. Its not about sex or even not being alone.


Its finding you to be someone I can be alone with. Finding you to be worth my time. My effort.

Perfectly imperfect.

And don't ever think for one moment despite being fully aware I could have some weathier, more physically fit, more demonstrative, more socially acceptable...that if I choose you ...if I say I am yours even for a moment I do so because in that moment you are worth it.

And if we date a week or two months, I fully gave you the chance to win my heart.


And if I give you my heart...it means I saw in you something beyond precious. Be it beautifully broken, your soul spoke to me.

And I won't ever deny how much you meant to me. 

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I think I convince myself that I am strong, because I have no choice but to be. I don't like thinking about the past, I really don't.  I know it doesn't seem that way if you read all my past entries on here.  I seem rather obsessive sometimes.  But, I only ...

I am really, really saddened by the state of the world these days. The backwards racist thinking; the sexist, homophobic sentiment. The anti-scientific mentality. And worse of all the utter hypocrisy and lack of love for our fellow man. Are there bad people, bad cops, bad parents, and so on in the world? Of course there are. But society is more than the individual. I have always felt that the measure of a man (or woman) was in their own actions not in the color of their skin, the clothes they wear, or the opportunities that they were given. Horrible things happen because as a society the value of taking personal responsibility is diminished. The blame game, lawsuits, and quick get rich schemes are the more acceptable than saying 'mea culpa'. When someone does take accountability for their actions they are vilified and it is used against them. The very ideals that the majority religions preach, that of love and forgiveness are rejected and the charity to others becomes lip service as such things as homelessness and hunger become criminalized!
I am not nor will I ever be a conservative. I am not now will I ever be a liberal. I cannot in good conscious agree with either Democrats or Republicans. I am pro-gun regulations, pro-civil liberties, pro-universal healthcare and education. I am anti-government overreach into family and personal body matters. I am anti-corporate person-hood, anti-GMO I am pro-common sense and logical reasoning.
I don't care what you think of Obama. He IS our President. I am sick of all of the 'pro-gun' posts,. no one is trying to take your guns unless you are a sick crazy sonofabitch. I don't care if you smoke weed, as long as you don't wave it in my face! And I am very very tired of Police Bashing.
And I think if we each had to take personal responsibility for our actions, and stopped spreading propaganda all day long on social media, the world would be a much better place.
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Dear Internet,

   Just because someone is also a Jones, does not make them a relative.   I have NO IDEA who half the people the internet claims I am related to.  I wish the US Post office would also comprehend this.   I DO NOT KNOW a Ronald Jones.  I have no contact with the Jones side of my family anywhere, regardless. 

And I have never lived in PA. 

I don't really care if you know most of the so called private information available on line.  OH NO...all my dorm addresses over the 3 years in Tiffin!  Even if you have my actual physical address, doesn't mean you can find my home. 

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Cattell's 16 Personality Factors Test
Warmth 2.7   / Warmth is how nice to people you are. Low scorers are impersonal,
distant, cool, reserved, detached, formal and aloof. High scorers are
outgoing, attentive to others, kindly, easy-going, participating and
like people. [ less ] Reasoning 3....
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