Abby, Nice article! Can't agree with you more in terms of "the internal mystery of what it requires to build personality." It is human nature to be attracted to mystery and anticipation and with the breakthrough of social media, we have a bit of information and conversation fluidity overload.
Not to sound cliche but it's kind of revolutionary. The rules of social norm and relationships have been rewritten so quickly that we cannot always keep up. Unfortunately, this rapid transformation has jeopardized the core fundamentals of building "character" and "personality".
Good work and I look forward to reading more in the future!