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Kat Askari
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Everyone needs a pair of Fresh Prince socks right?
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2017 is ending and everyone seems to be reflecting so here's my two cents. 2016 was a real shit show of a year for K and I. His mom passed after heart surgery in February and she was buried on our 10 year anniversary. During the funeral they showed all the photos from our wedding. My mom was sick with cancer during all of this and I was caring for her. She was horrible to me, if family is reading this, judging me, or your first thought was that I didn't call you soon enough, seriously fuck off. I'm done. I did my best. My mom was dying and she asked me not to tell anyone, she was fucking dying and I honored her wishes and most of my family were so selfish during all of this. I was changing her cath, helping her shower, even helping her walk some days but they were angry with me because I respected her wishes. I should note that eventually I went against her wishes and let some of you know, but that's not something any of you care to acknowledge. As mom was passing she treated me more terribly than she did while she was alive and the closer the end came the more she didn't believe that I was doing all I could to save her. It broke me and then she died. The days started passing, in a sort of haze, two months after she died Meesh took her life, on her birthday. She passed away in the same room that K said goodbye to his mom in. I didn't get to say goodbye to Lupe because I was caring for mom. Then for some fucking reason we didn't elect Trump, he became our president anyway and started fucking all of us in our face holes. BOOM 2017 starts. Commence the great dumpster fire that this year has been. Race riots, anyone that is not a wealthy white man looses all recognition as a fellow human, I start becoming and more overwhelmed and introspective, friends start becoming uncomfortable with my honesty or depression or who really knows what the fuck, and cut off communication with me. This breaks me a bit more. I start realizing that I need tools to use when I'm feeling this way and so I seek therapy and medication. I've started writing more and spending a lot more time with me and I'm not so bad. I've decided that I'm going to embrace me and my journey. I'm hoping for the best in 2018. I have an awesome idea for a new business, friends cool enough to be my guinea pigs, a husband that is trying, pets that mostly like it when I force love on them and I have a life of experiences. 2018 will be challenging, there will be a lot change but I'm going to do my hardest to remind myself that we're all in this together. I love all of you.

Yo friends, I'm gathering supplies for a toy drive on the 15th. Please let me know if you can help out. We'll probably be meeting at a brewery to assemble gifts next week at some point. +Dustin Tacy FYI the show on the 15th is a toy drive :D
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+Dustin Tacy  Only ten more days until we get to dance our asses off!!

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I really love my dog. :) I feel bad for her because I can't help but cuddle her. She hates cuddles.
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I'm going to the doctor.. again. I'm in pain and sensitive. Please be nice to me. This song is the best

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Thanks for the fun +Dustin Tacy​! +PeelanderZ​ was super fun!
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