Love, one of the most wonderful feelings and emotions a person can express or let consume them. Many confuse love with other emotions because of what happens between them and the people that they have loved in the past. Sure, not every relationship is a relationship that will last forever, and true enough, some relationships may lead to a person becoming lonely, and feeling rejected, but we all should step into love knowing that it is quite risky giving our hearts out to people who will then have the ability to break them.
Almost every aspect of life requires us to take some sort of risk, including the most beautiful part of life that we will ever see, being in love. Sometimes it works in love, and sometimes it hurts instead. Do remember, the love that you will have for someone someday when it works out for you; will easily be greater and will easily cover up the pain that you may have felt from heartbreak in the past.
needy is usually the result of an insecure feeling, usually the fear of being
alone or without a mate. This is a problem that should be fixed, because it may
handicap you at every stage of a relationship. From first dates to life in
couple, being needy will always put you at a disadvantage. This is especially
true after a break up, if you try to get your ex back. It's OK to read some
broken heart quotes and let your sadness express for some time, but at one
point you have to move on and get into a more positive mood.
Whatever your feelings, your life should still go on and the world shouldn't stop because of your ex. If you are needy, this usually means you need to be reassured that you are loved. This is perfectly human, but don't forget that your ex is far from being the only worthwhile person that may love you. If you want to get your ex back, avoid being needy, and avoid:
- showing any kind of desperation
- harassing your ex or any other person
- asking if he/she is interested in coming back with you
- asking about his/her feelings towards you
- calling your ex all the time
Try to figure out how you would feel if someone did all these things to you. Even if the person was nice, you probably wouldn't want him/her anymore. The fact is, no one wants to be with a needy person. The best way to get rid from your neediness is to fill your life with interesting activities, hobbies, friends... Then, you will be able to enjoy the time you spend with your ex much more, and he/she will probably be much more interested in coming back with you.