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Nella C.
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I can respect this video. I respect how you said some instead all, compared to the mountains of others I've watched recently that just bashes black women. Yes this generation of black women now have a lot of issues to deal with, especially because of media influence. The media doesnt show black gentlemen. They only show the thugs and convicts as really great lovers. So what would your 16yr old think? 

And the problem is vice versa. A lot of men choose to become thugs and ganstas and run women. They impregnate them and refuse care of their kids. 

Now as a community, this ghetto mentality, needs to be done away with. It's down right disgusting and self limiting. And each of us are to blame for it flourishing. How many times do we tell our brothers and sisters that they speak 'white', because they're speaking proper english? or that they act 'white' because they are exhibiting proper manners?

We all need to examine ourselves, change our mentality and work together to make the black community a better place. (sorry that this was so long)
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You made some good points but I don't think it has anything to do with the media influence. People are influenced by whats around them on a daily basis. So if I'm in a community were 70% of head of house hold is a woman as a young boy I'm going to think its not my responsibility to support myself or a family...that's the job of a woman. If I'm a little girl and I see a majority of woman dating and having babies with different men who are in and out of jail...then lets just say I'm not going to be very picky when I get older.

I disagree some what with being teased about using proper English and exhibiting proper manners. I think this was true 20 years ago but I notice today even ghetto people don't like being called ratchet, hood rat, or ghetto. And this is a good thing.

Lastly its 2015 black people cant use the blame game anymore. The fact is if you want an education, a job, your own place etc the only thing stopping you is yourself. Being a man is not how many times you been in and out of jail, how many baby mamas you got, how many guns you got, or how low you sang your pants. Its supporting your family and spending time with your kids. My people got a long way to go.
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You made some excellent points. I'm hate pointing fingers but if I can be honest then I'll say our people are the way they are because of our men. They, the leaders, have left their posts, and abundoned their responsibilities. As a result the community was, and still is vulnerable. That being said, it is all our responsibility, man and woman to pick up the pieces, and heal our community. 
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+PAUL brandel I did not avoid anything, you attempted to correct me with error. No we should not, not because "white people" name it...  Because that statement isn't true, they are not "white"...  I don't call the land of Cush or Kemet, Africa except when talking to those who don't have a good understand...  I agree there are many important issues the first one should be the knowledge of self... 


 If you don't understand who and what you are, or the power of words (thoughts) and what effect they have on the person that speaks or think them; what make you think you have a good understanding about my people issues?  How can you or anyone else be a true positive help without first having true knowledge, not the opinion of Euros as "knowledge"?
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Smh! And I'm sure we women are the ones who impregnated ourselves. (Rolling my eyes) Are we to raise the kids by ourselves? Tell me, where does your role as a man come in? When are you going to take responsibility for abandoning your families and stop blaming us women for no raising the kids that you abodoned right? 
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+Tina Brown What exactly is your argument? Are you saying that husbands don't abandon their families?

-I agree with your last response. Us women, people in general need to rise above their situations and take responsibility for their actions and their lives. That is the only way that we'll have safer and stronger communities.
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 You find those issues in all other races. The whites, italians, hispanics, they don't all have a great support system. This is more of an individual issue. I think that you should just pay more attention to the character of the person that you date.
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Why does this terrorist group still exist in 2014? Would the government and law enforcers allow any other terrorist to be in the usa?
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I agree with this video. And yes please, continue waking up our black men. Too many of them are leaving their offsprings to be raised by just the mother or other men, and thus our kids are growing up without the proper guidance. Wake them up! And I'll do my best to wake some sisters so we can have better families and stronger communities
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This argument was weak as shit. Next time get a better video to pove Your point. 
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+Nella C.  I see it everyday with my own eyes. Negroes who don't want nothing out of life hitting each and every woman silly enough to lay with them, and sadly I have many cousins who fit this statistic, but somebody has to step up and say hey "Enough is Enough" we are raising a generation of angry kids. Though I don't have any, in our community, things have gotten out of hand.
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I'm a vibrant, free-spirited, down to earth lady. I enjoy life and sometimes get excited just knowing that it's the best blessing ever. I have a great sense of humor. Sometimes I can be shy, sometimes I get bold and aggressive, sometimes i get wacky, sometimes wild.......lol I love watching anime. I'm a very kind, loving, and sometimes gentle person. I strongly believe that you should treat others the way that you'd like to be treated. It"s great to relax sometimes but I enjoy being on the go. I like meeting new people, going to new places and trying new things.

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