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“Dear Principal Jones, teachers, school board members, and parents,

My name is Carrie Smith. I'm here to disrupt your school.
People have been telling me for years that I shouldn’t be homeschooling — I should be improving the lives of all kids, not just my own! This year, it finally sank in.

We’ve been homeschooling for 10 years and hoo boy, I think we’ve tried it all! Montessori, classical, unschooling — you name it, we tried it. That’s what you do when you love your kids, I guess — you just keep fiddling with the recipe till you find what works. And now you’ll all benefit!

Our oldest, Margaret, was six when we pulled her out of school, and she still struggles with needing a bit of structure. Even after all these years of homeschooling she has a hard time taking advantage of the freedom she has to do it her own way. Her self-motivation still isn’t back 100%. But that’s okay — fewer changes for you to make! Ha ha!

Unfortunately, Margaret is a real crank bear if she has to get up before 9. But it turns out there’s abundant research showing that teenagers need more sleep and would benefit from a later start time. Circadian rhythms or something. I’m not sure how you’ll work it out with working parents and your bus schedule and so forth, but I’ll leave you to figure that out.

Carl is our oldest boy; he’s 12. Now, self-motivation is not a problem there. He’s never seen the inside of a classroom and he won’t stand for anyone telling him what to do or how to do it! Self-directed learner all the way. He really thrives in maker situations. You’ve probably read about maker spaces online — they’re all the rage. So much good stuff there, you’re sure to love it. You’ll have to mark out some really big blocks of time because the only way kids can think up their own ideas and then make them happen is if you clear the decks and throw your schedule out the window. I’ll let you work out what you want to drop from your current schedule to accommodate that.

Now Carl is like a lot of 12-year-olds — I don’t think the seat of his pants sees a chair all day. But no worries — talk about abundant research! Kids need to be up and moving around, not sitting down all day. And now they will be!

My younger daughter Luna is 9. She was born in France while we were living there for a year for my husband’s job and even though she was only 3 months old when we left, she must have picked up something from the air. The girl doesn’t walk when she can dance; she doesn’t talk when she can sing. She paints all day long.

Of course an artistic soul like our Luna would be miserable in school with all of the cutbacks in art education over the last several years — but not anymore! Ha ha! We’ll be reinstituting those art and music classes tout suite.

Our youngest, Joe, is 5. He’s a special case, but all our kids are, am I right? Strangely, what’s worked best for Joe is Waldorf, which didn’t work at all with the other kids. Waldorf is a little bit picky about … well … everything! You’ll see! I’ve prepared some handouts to send home about diet, special toys, no TV, and so forth. We’ll be switching to a Waldorf curriculum in all of the Kindergarten classes immediately.

Finally, in closing, I would like to sincerely apologize for taking so long to wake up and see that I should be taking my educational improvements to the school and putting them in action there. I honestly didn’t realize I had that power.

I mean, that’s why we homeschooled in the first place — because we didn’t think school could (or should have to, honestly!) accommodate the various needs of our four kids … not to mention the fact that we were figuring it all out as we went along! It certainly was a learning process.

Who knew that I could have stayed and improved things not just for Margaret, Carl, Luna, and Joe but for ALL kids. My husband and I had quite a laugh about it, I can tell you. I mean, we haven’t been able to afford a family vacation in ten years! We would give each other a rueful look every year writing out our property tax bill, looking at all that education money we couldn’t use — and now we can!

Best,

Carrie

P.S. See you on Monday!”
Dear Principal Jones, teachers, school board members, and parents,. My name is Carrie Smith. I'm here to disrupt your school. People have been telling me for years that I shouldn't be homeschooling — I should be improving the lives of all kids, not just my own! This year, it finally sank in.
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Think of this applied to school — and then to family.



Max De Pree’s Twelve Questions to Leaders



Does what I do count?

Does what I do make a difference to anybody?

Why should I come here?

Can I be somebody here?

Is there for me any rhyme or reason here?

Can I “own” this place?

Do I have any rights?

Does coming here add any richness to my life?

Is this a place where I can learn something?

Would I show this place to my family — or am I embarrassed to show it to them — or does it just not matter?

Is there anybody here I can trust?

Is this place open to my influence?
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Love this! just started reading your blog, i've been interested in homeschool and just introduced to the project based learning!  keep up what you are doing..great information! we need a group of people to just revamp the entire education system! :-)
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“Do what you love” isn’t a career plan — but it is a plan for a good life.
I saw a post on Austin Kleon's blog about this piece by Rachel Nabors: We rarely hear the advice of the person who did what they loved and stayed poor or was horribly injured for it. Professional gamblers, stuntmen, washed up cartoonists like myself: we don't give speeches at corporate events.
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New self-guided e-classes are now available on the blog! Journaling + Observational Drawing for Families — check it out!
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Heck has frozen over, pigs are flying, and I’m back on the Facebook so we could have a PBH Facebook group — check it out!
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How do you want to spend your days? How can you get to do that, to spend the rest of your days doing what you really enjoy, as much as possible? This is the goal, not fame or fortune or acceptance or museums, or awards or endorsement contracts, etc. This is success. — Danny Gregory
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My twitter rant (and some extra thoughts) in response to Wired’s article “ Homeschooling Only Deepens Silicon Valley’s Rift With the Rest of Us”
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An all-or-nothing mind-set is a fantastic way to abbreviate the whole process of setting goals and making resolutions. As soon as you see you can’t do it all, you can quit!

Don’t resolve to succeed. Resolve to work at it.

Don’t resolve to know it. Resolve to think about it.

Don’t resolve to know it all. Resolve to learn more.

When you don’t meet with absolute success (and you won’t), remember that you weren’t aiming for absolute success … You were aiming to learn more.

That way, you won’t need to quit because you failed. You can just keep learning more, and that makes you … a success.
It rarely is. One of the best ways to plan to fail isn't just to fail to plan ... You can also plan to succeed so thoroughly, so perfectly, so mind-blowingly that it is absolutely incredible ... and ... inevitably undoable. Don't resolve to succeed. Resolve to work at it.
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this 11-year-old girl is an inspiring maker!
Blythe uses the 3D printer. Please enjoy this fantastic win today shared by Nicky Serrano and her daughter Blythe! • • •. I wanted to share a huge win my 11-year-old daughter Blythe has had at her local Maker's Guild. I am hoping we avoided most of the pitfalls Lori mentioned in her post What's ...
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The classes I taught this summer on Journaling and Observational Drawing for Families are now available on the site as self-guided e-courses.
Both of these one-week, self-guided e-classes are now available for instant enrollment here. Enjoy! I can't thank you enough for this class! It's so much more than a journaling class. The advice I learnt on setting goals and creating habits is priceless and I will be applying it to every aspect ...
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Enrolling our next PBH master class… not planning another for six months so get it while the gettin’ is good!
We are now enrolling the fall session of the PBH master class. It will run for six weeks from September 8 through October 17 and costs $125. Please go here to read the class description, testimonials from former students, and enroll if you are interested! I probably won't schedule another master ...
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A new mini-post…
A couple things happen when we focus all of our collective attention on boys and whether or not they are reading. First, we tell boys that they are not reading, and that reading is not an inherently “boyish” thing to do. We expect them, in fact, not to read, and boys who love reading are outside ...
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i write about mentoring self-directed learners. and i live in a barn.
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I write about project-based homeschooling and mentoring self-directed learners at the Camp Creek Blog. I wrote Project-Based Homeschooling: Mentoring Self-Directed Learners. I owned a Reggio-inspired private school for several years. I started my first company when I was 22. I’ve always worked on a Mac and I still have my Newton.
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