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Husband & Wife Is real Best Friend in this world

When you first met your spouse, ideally you were both living lives that were fulfilling and interesting (note the emphasis on “ideally”— if you and/or your spouse didn’t have a lot going on when you first met, the relationship was already in really big trouble). One reason your spouse was attractive was the life they were living apart from you. The lives you were living before you met were an important part of what made each of you who you were.

As you began spending more time together and getting to know one another, you likely had less time to engage in the things you were doing before you met. Some couples go so far as to completely give up everything they previously found fulfilling and important in order to spend time together. The problem with this is, as you became fused, you became more and more dependent on each other to meet your individual needs.

That’s the problem with your spouse being your best friend.

As you give up those things you find fulfilling and important for the sake of the relationship, this places a tremendous burden on your spouse to fill the void of whatever you gave up. And this burden will create neediness and dependency, as well as resentment and boredom.

One of the best things you can do for your spouse is have a couple of great same-sex friendships.

Every marriage needs space between the spouses. It is within this space that you find energy, passion, eroticism, quiet time, and personal fulfillment.

While I believe that friendship within the marriage is vital for the relationship, close friendships outside of the marriage are equally important, especially if you want a marriage with lots of passion, eroticism, adventure, and energy.

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How to See Beauty at Winter:


Prep your face:
Always use a face primer with dry skin. This is a must for most skin types, but especially for dry skin. The dry skin has been compromised by the harshness of the weather, so it may have indentations that will be magnified by makeup. The face primer retexturizes skin and plumps for a smooth, even application, says Reagan.

Use a fresh foundation:
Another big dry skin tip is to check your foundation for expiration dates and ingredients, says Kim Laudati of Kim Laudati Skin Care. Anything that is liquid, is water based, or is meant for oil control shouldn’t be used on dry skin, especially in the winter. Opt instead for a cream foundation in a stick or pot and don’t over-apply. You’ll get lovely coverage with a supple look and feel. Clean fingers are best for applying evenly as brushes can irritate dry skin.

It’s all in the technique:
To get the most out of your moisturizer, make sure to hydrate while skin is still slightly damp, as the skin tends to absorb product better, says beauty expert Christina Marrale. Think of it as a wet sponge as opposed to a dry sponge, the wet sponge absorbs water faster — the dry sponge takes more water, and more time.

Opt for a hydrating foundation:
When making the switch to a winter foundation, opt for a hydrating formula, as it will wear better on dry skin and add an extra layer of moisture to it, says Marrale.

MORE: 9 Tips to Ward Off Breakouts

Treat dry skin patches:
These patches of dry skin are super common as the weather grows dryer and colder, and they can make it feel impossible to apply makeup evenly. Avoid rubbing or scrubbing this area aggressively, it’ll make it worse.  The best remedy is keeping it smooth and hydrated. In addition to switching up your foundation, start using cream blushes. This will help to increase hydration and smoothness.

Make facial spray your BFF:
“To refresh and rehydrate the skin through the day, I never leave home without a nourishing facial spray like Mario Badescu Facial Spray with Aloe, Herbs and Rosewater,” says Marrale. It brings the glow back to my dry, dehydrated skin and helps set my makeup, too.

Cocktail your favorite body lotion with bronzer:
Bikinis and shorts may be over, but the adorable, above-the-knee dresses are not. By mixing a body moisturizer with your favorite bronzer, you’ll have the perfect blend to energize post summer legs with a flawless finish, says SkinAgain creator Sherrie Berry.
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How to get your ex-boyfriend back:



You need to make him feel terrible for breaking up with you. He should feel like a dumbass for letting you go. That’s what you need to make him feel like if you want to get him back. You won’t get him back by spying and stalking him (stop checking his Facebook every 2 minutes), but by making him remember all the great times you had together, and making him imagine how nicer life could be if you were still together.

This requires you to make some radical changes in your life.

Stop and give at least 30 seconds of thought to each of the questions below. Answer honestly; Say it out loud to yourself.

    What is it that went wrong in your relationship?
    Why?
    What is it that he did not like about your relationship?
    What would you do differently if you got back together?
    What did he love most about your relationship?
    What did you love most?
    What was restricting the love in your relationship the most? What was stopping it from growing further?
    Did you give your absolute best to make the relationship work?

Think about these questions. Don’t be too critical of either him or yourself. All this emotional bullshit, arguing and blaming each other for crap is one of the reasons you might have broken up in the first place.

We rarely know what we have – until we lose it.

Now you know what you’ve lost, and you are about to get it back. Nobody can guarantee you that you’ll end up being together again – but, in at least 90% of the cases, it’s totally possible. You must believe in the possibility.

    Why did you guys fall for each other in the first place?
    What connected you?

There must have been something that he fell in love with in the first place.

    Why did this disappear?
    Did you take each other for granted?
    Did you both get lazy about your relationship and just left it on autopilot?

The reason you must answer these questions to yourself is so that you can determine a couple of things. First, do you really want to get him back, will you be happy or are you just lonely right now, but deep inside you know that it probably won’t work out if you get back together? You must believe that things will work out between the two of you and that you can be happy together again. Otherwise, if you don’t have total belief in this relationship, then it’s not worth trying to get him back.

I’ll assume you’ve decided that things can work out between you and him, so now, the question is – what can you do so that he believes in your relationship too?
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