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what a powerful ballad full of melancholy. Kind of reminds me of "Someday you will be loved" by Death Cab. 
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amen! some tools I use are timers- helps me to not get lost in my work and to give myself a chance to look up and then decide to continue or move to another task. Also Habit RPG! It's awesome! Make tons of lists and reward yourself when you get stuff done! Beautiful!
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I remember the first time I met some kids like this when I was in Japan and I was thrown for a loop. I think I tried to say hi in English and they just looked at me weird. A friend told me they were born in Japan and don't really know English and I couldn't wrap my head around it. So even I made a snap judgement that they were just like me when they weren't/ (maybe they were Russian or something...) but anyways, the way you look is really important in Japan as there aren't many foreigners. Unless they know you from growing up if you are out on the street people will treat you the way you look and if you are not Japanese looking you are a foreigner.

Groups are important in Japan- you always have to think about whether someone is inside your group our outside your group as it determines your relationship and they way you should speak/ act/ interact with that person. A simple example is your family group. Some people you are related to and everyone else is outside that. You will speak about your family to other people using specific vocabulary (haha, chichi, oneechan, etc.) and you will use respectful vocabulary to speak about people who are not in your family (adding ~san after names, okaasan, otousan, etc) 

Because the culture requires the Japanese to be considerate of their environment, circumstances, etc...they are always making judgments about who people are in relation to them (are they older or younger than me? do they have a higher position or lower position than me? are we in the same group like school? neighborhood? country? etc...) so they know how to act. 

The Japanese find White Japanese people like in this video difficult to categorize. The occurrence of people like this is so small that they don't know how to relate and it takes considerable effort to re-define what they have learned in order to relate. Almost as difficult is when you look Japanese but you don't "act" Japanese. My friend was born in Japan but moved to the U.S. when he was around 3 years old. He speaks Japanese fluently and understands basic Japanese culture but he's very Americanized. When he lived in Japan he seemed like a very rude Japanese person because he would make mistakes when interacting with people but no one would give him a break for being a foreigner because he didn't look like one. They expected him to know better. 

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