"That I would be good" by Alanis Morissette is very validating and comforting to me. Failure is one of my biggest fears and it can be so debilitating. Anyways, just look at the lyrics:
That I would be good even if I did nothing
That I would be good even if I got the thumbs down
That I would be good if I got and stayed sick
That I would be good even if I gained ten pounds
That I would be fine even if I went bankrupt
That I would be good if I lost my hair and my youth
That I would be great if I was no longer queen
That I would be grand if I was not all knowing
That I would be loved even when I numb myself
That I would be good even when I am overwhelmed
That I would be loved even when I was fuming
That I would be good even if I was clingy
That I would be good even if I lost sanity
That I would be good whether with or without you
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More than others I have learned how important it is to forgive, love, and support myself even when I fall short of my expectations. That my weakness now doesn't erase the good I have done and that I can and will be better one small step at a time.
Let your loved ones know you will love them unconditionally! Even if they pull their hair out or slip up, or fall short.
Nor am I under any impression that you are perfect. You are not perfect, not even in any aspect that I just mentioned, perhaps. But I am dead certain that you are good, very good.
God be with you, my friend!