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#PARENTING - Teach kids about the POWER of God!

From early on teach your kids to PRAY and SING... Teach them to pray and sing when they are scared, when they are shocked...

Rehearse with them possible scenarios... A shooting at school... an earthquake... An abduction... Responding to a bully in school... Fear of something... Pray and sing...

A young boy kidnapped from his Atlanta home sang a gospel song for nearly three hours until the suspect kicked him out of the car.

The man used cash to lure 10 year old Willie Myrick close enough for him to grab and shove into his car.

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Luke 6:43-45
"No good tree bears bad fruit, nor does a bad tree bear good fruit. Each tree is recognized by its own fruit. People do not pick figs from thornbushes, or grapes from briers. The good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart, and the evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his heart. For out of the overflow of his heart his mouth speaks."
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Elie Wiesel...

His life influenced me powerfully! *I invite to read my "Chats with God" tonight dedicated to the memory of Elie Wiesel.

Only those who have suffered injustice and rejection get glimpses of Wiesel's legacy.

Wiesel reminded us through his own experience the controversy between GOOD and EVIL. He was many things besides a survivor of the Holocaust. The most, a beacon of light, reminding us that justice must be sought and cultivated.

I was always captivated by his books, writings, interviews, and views on what turns "normal" people into monsters of oppression. At this particular juncture in the history of our country we must remember Weisel's description on how masses of people, in times of crisis give up their freedom. The potential "Hitlers" are not too far away from us. (Wiesel and Bonhoeffer's writings are powerful)

Some of my favorite quotes from Weise in my file:

“The opposite of love is not hate, it's INDIFFERENCE. The opposite of art is not ugliness, it's INDIFFERENCE. The opposite of faith is not heresy, it's INDIFFERENCE. And the opposite of life is not death, it's INDIFFERENCE.” ― Elie Wiesel

Dictators, AUTHORITARIANS, demagogues first mesmerize the minds of the masses with illusions, then suck the life of their wills and hearts hearts, which results in the vacuum of INDIFFERENCE.

“We must always take sides. NEUTRALITY helps the oppressor, never the victim. Silence encourages the tormentor, never the tormented.” ― Elie Wiesel

This one is mine inspired by Weisel...
"People who do not take sides at the sight of injustice and abuse are spineless and lack a moral compass! It's never an accident. It has been a work in progress for many years, ignoring the evidence while being inoculated by the venom of personal comfort and conformity. When you see injustice in a marriage, a divorce, child abuse, the culture, the poor, the oppressed of society, and say nothing, or worst yet put the oppressor and the victim at the same level, you have suddenly turned yourself into an angel of the darkness!" - Harold

“Never shall I forget that night, the first night in camp, which has turned my life into one long night, seven times cursed and seven times sealed....Never shall I forget those moments which murdered my God and my soul and turned my dreams to dust. Never shall I forget these things, even if I am condemned to live as long as God Himself. Never.” ― Elie Wiesel, Night

“There is divine beauty in learning... To learn means to accept the postulate that life did not begin at my birth. Others have been here before me, and I walk in their footsteps. The books I have read were composed by generations of fathers and sons, mothers and daughters, teachers and disciples. I am the sum total of their experiences, their quests. And so are you.” ― Elie Wiesel

“When a person doesn’t have gratitude, something is missing in his or her humanity. A person can almost be defined by his or her attitude toward gratitude.” ― Elie Wiesel

Wiesel wrote about the Holocaust and his experiences in his 1955 autobiography, 'Night.'
The best... "Gold digger"... Ha,ha,ha,ha,ha
Psychopaths make up about one percent of the general population (as in, not in a mental institution or jail) and most of them aren’t serial killers. They’re your conniving co-worker who somehow seems

Wow... Amazing marriage and a remarkable life...

A corner of my soul grieves for the 50% (first time), 75% (second time) and 85% (third time) of marriages who choose divorce.

1) Over 50% of kids in this country come from divorced homes... Divorce is a generational curse.

2) Divorce not only affects young kids, but adults "kids"resent divorce even when they are independent and already married.

3) All marriages have conflict and tough moments all along... I deal with marriages all the time. There is no "conflict-less" marriage anywhere on the face of the planet. No marriage is compatible. That's the myth....

4) The difference between married and divorced marriages is a) their ability to "choose marriage" every day, b) they work on unresolved conflicts, d) THEY CHANGE for the sake of the marriage, e) they love the real way (not by feelings), f) and they are well rooted in God.

Jimmy and Rosalyn Carter, great role model for us all.

The scandalous GRACE of God!
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i don't recognize Windrige apartments' reviews... 1) i have lived here for 6 years. never a problem! peaceful place... 2) it's a good, safe community, kind people... it's an apartment complex, not houses with space around them... come on! 3) the service management provides it's beyond phenomenal... whenever there is a problem and you report it, they are there to fix it. 4) management is kind, welcoming and efficient. 5) "ghetto"? what do you want? go pay 4 times what you pay here and you will have your "non ghetto" environment... if you don't have the money to live in beverly hills, don't complain for having a roof over your head in east los angeles... learn to be grateful! People who judge a place negatively while not being able to pay for what "their world of fantasies want" are maladjusted and will be unhappy no matter where they go... if you are not grateful and happy with a bike, because you can not afford a car, you won't be happy with a car either.... If you don't keep your apartment clean, neat, organized, and your live in a "trash can of your own making" don't complain about COCKROACH... i vacuum my apartment once a week, make sure counters are always windex-clean, floors clean, no trash around, and call management for fumigation any time i see a bug... this is a real world with nature around... bugs do exist whether you live in an apartment or a house... 6) rental is reasonable... i have checked other communities... smaller places and more expensive... most do not have garage... only carport... 7) apartment comes with ALL appliances... good washer, dryer and all other appliances... brand new when i moved in 6 years ago... they replace and fix whatever doesn't work... i have never in 6 years witness a disturbance or dangerous situation... i recommend Windridge to anyone who is looking for a good place. lots of families with kids is an indication of safety and friendly environment...
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BEST PLACE!!!! employees are kind, courteous, efficient, they greet you when you come in... GREAT SERVICE!!!!
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VERY poor customer service... I CHECKED THEIR 3 EXCELLENT REVIEWS AND THEY ARE NOT REAL... They were created to give UPS a "good image"... new ownership took charge and they lack in customer service... the owners before were kind, good and efficient... new ownership told me "they don't care if people quit doing business with them," when I told him i did not have the money to pay my regular fee for the use of the box... i made a promise to pay, went back to tell me i needed extra time, and i needed my mail to get possible checks and he kept "banging" me over the head that i promised to pay on monday and i did not... bad customer service.... rude... not good! i have been with them for 6 years, paying... that should show them i appreciate the business... he did not care... the former long time owner before the two owners was the best one! it was a family business then... now it has been turned into a "money making machine." one business lesson the new owner never learned... HE NEEDS THE CUSTOMERS as much as the customers need their services... TREAT PEOPLE WELL, YOU WILL MAKE MONEY... TREAT THEM LIKE CRAP, YOUR BUSINESS WILL GO DOWN...
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