Great video! Hard to do though but I encourage all women to do this. What I have found over and over is that when I am obsessing about the last love, to a small degree it is actually good while you are dating new guys because it keeps you from falling for someone new right away. It keeps you a bit mysterious and allows more room for a guy to peruse you a bit more strongly. It draws men into you. So though obsessing is not good to do long term and overall is not good, it actually does have a good purpose you can use to become more attractive to new guys.