.. +Chuck Merriman
yeah l usually opted rather than do the 3rd wheel trip to do the by myself number.
all my co workers were married or almost. and then sometimes you just do not wanna go out w/ someone for one reason or another...
oh yeah; also ..bars are a mistake. (you'll meet someone who's drunk as you might be too; this can cause Problems.)
it''s hard man... last (few!) years l have sabotaged pretty much everything.
but then there has always been a sound reason.
at this point? sort of have given up.. just too much damn trouble.. (grr.)
l'm just like ..oh whatever..
most of the friends now have/ had kids (and now those are scary 'old' in some cases!) glad l never did. just ..dogs, cats.