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Amara Nwosu
Preschool Director, Author, Christian relationship counselor, newspaper columnist, inspirational speaker, and certified international protocol and etiquette con
Preschool Director, Author, Christian relationship counselor, newspaper columnist, inspirational speaker, and certified international protocol and etiquette con


Aunty pls i need ur urgent response...
There is a burden in my heart; i did some pretty bad stuffs whilst growing up.. I stole many many times, i lied terribly! But now, i hunger to serve Jesus honestly, sometimes when i remember the things i did, i feel so guilty and worthless to even call the name Jesus! Pls help me to achieve genuine repentance, what must i do to have everlasting peace in christ. Thank u

My Dearest,
This is Mr. Devil playing games with you. Your heart is the greatest deceiver you must know. I don’t care what you’ve done; it’s not greater than the weight of sin of the whole world that Christ carried on the cross. I don’t care how much of of a mess you are; the blood of Jesus is powerful, so powerful that the mess is nothing. He has forgiven your sins and thrown them into the ocean of forgetfulness; He remembers them no more. You are just a new baby to Him.
Now, the question is, Have you forgiven yourself?
Please my darling, don’t let the devil hold you down. Don’t let the world hold you down. Their own mess is worse than yours; they are filthier than you are. Like Jesus said to the woman caught in adultery, “ neither have I condemned you, go and sin no more”. Even if you fail again tomorrow, just ask for forgiveness, go back to your Father; yes, He is your Father and loves you that much. He will embrace you and throw a party for you. You are a princess, take your place.

I love you

You have a sugar daddy who is not ready to take you as a wife and is not willing to let you go. Suitors are coming and you are busy enjoying the wealth and affluence. You look at them as small boys who shouldn't come anywhere close to you. Your sugar daddy is by the corner asking why you want to get married. He has even promised to make you a "bigger" babe. You agree with him and now you believe you don't need the marriage of a thing. I put it to you that you are one of the most foolish people on earth even when you believe you are smart. One day, you shall wake up to know that you missed one of the most beautiful things in life.

Your sugar daddy who is telling you not to bother about marriage is married and has children. He has given you so much money that you feel on top of the world. He can only be with you for as long as your body is fresh. Give yourself some years and he is gone in search of a younger blood. Give yourself five years and compare your photos. You will realize what you've done to yourself by the time age comes knocking. And if you choose not to be married, don't go out there making it look like you don't need a man; don't go all over sowing seeds of bitterness in other's relationships; don't remain single because some selfish man thinks you should stay for him, let it be your choice.

Sugar Daddy is not the only one singing those tunes in your ears; some frustrated demonic agents on social media are gradually leading you to hell and misery with their updates that are devil inspired. They make you believe you don't need a man if you are successful. To them, it's about career and good money. You watch some society women and celebrities live like they don't need a man. I won't believe any woman who tells me she doesn't need a man. It's two things: either she is afraid to have a real man to call a husband because she knows she cannot handle him or she simply can't have a man. And mind you; many of them now need fellow women more than they need men. Some of them are married, but because they are frustrated and messed up in their marriage, they don't want you to experience the beauty in your own marriage. As long as you listen to them, you will not experience true happiness that God wants you to experience.

What they should tell you is that they don't want a real man; they have boys who warm their beds for material gain. And I hope you know what is in vogue for them-doing all kinds of fetish and demonic things for influence, wealth, and power. Since they are your role models, please get ready to do it their way. But have it at the back of your mind that every Satan's gift has an expiry date and when it comes, it's with tears.

If you continue the way you live now, you will join the league of women who pay boys to warm their bed instead of having a real man to proudly call your own.
Be wise! We need men as much as they need us. Nature can't be wrong.

Dear Ladies,
I want to open your eyes to some of the reasons why our men act like they don't care about us. Why did that man, after shopping for you once, take the decision to stop buying things for you? I am sure you are not happy about it because I know that every woman desires that man who can make her feel like a queen. Every woman prays for that man who will bring something home after work and who can see something and instantly buy it for her because he knows she deserves it.

To tell you the truth, the man knows you should have that thing but he doesn't want to get it for you. It is not because he has no money to purchase it; he just wouldn't want to be scolded like a son or get verbally abused for not getting it right. How many times have you talked down on him for getting "the wrong thing" for you? How many times have you asked him to help buy bread on his way home only for you to go on reminding him that he got the wrong one? Did you remember the day he got you a dress he liked only for you to tell him how backward he is? What about the day he bought you a black brassiere and right there before him, you asked how much he got it after which you told him that you have a particular brand you use?

The problem here is that a good number of us have turned our husband to our last son. Every man wants to be treated with some level of respect, appreciation, and acceptance. If you cannot respect and trust him for leadership, you have no reason being in that marriage with him.

Men are strong, but that's just on the outside. They get broken by little things. A little appreciation of that little gift will spur him to go out of his way to earn more praise.
Accept whatever your husband gives you and be content with it. Make him feel like that 'Secret Possession' lingerie is from 'La Senza' or 'Victoria’s Secret'.
You are not getting some beautiful gifts from him because the last time he did, you made him feel miserable through the week.
If you think you should receive more, you must have a heart that is thankful.

Amara Blessing Nwosu

"Men are all unfaithful; women are all ungrateful...".
Many live their lives today and relate with the opposite sex with this word at the back of their mind and so their relationship isn’t t what it should be.

My dear girl, whatever you passed through; whatever you are passing through is not new under the sun, many passed through it and came forth shining and living a life of joy. Stop shouting out everyday in bitterness towards men. Stop working with the devil to destroy your own future by allowing every man that comes your way to walk away due to your transferred aggression on them. The life of bitterness you have settled for can only lead you into frustration, depression, cardiac arrest, and possibly, early death. It's time to do away with the negative mindset you have acquired as a result of past events of your life. Stop hating and instigating hatred against opposite gender. Stop deceiving the vulnerable and turning their hearts against innocent people. Many have been misled by some angry folks into having a negative mindset regarding marriage.

There are still many, millions of good men as well as women out there. There’s a place you will not get to; there the kind of joy you will not experience until you quit judging and making others to suffer for the sins of a total stranger.

If you go on living in bitterness, there won't be space for God to do a new thing in your life. He has promised to give you beauty for ashes; He has promised to turn your mess and mistake into a message. Give His Spirit a chance to break, remold, and make everything new. Keep your heart open to love and even when you fail, continue to run after genuine and true love from God. God can wipe away the pain and scars of yesteryears in a flash, only if you let him. You must first, strive to make yourself Miss/Mr. Right if you want to find Miss/Mr. Right. First run after God's own love and you will see love run after you.
Enough of that "all men are unfaithful, silly, nasty, bla-bla-bla"; enough of "women are forever ungrateful and unfaithful". Begin to see everyone as individuals with different upbringing. Stop using your mistake or the mistake of someone close to you to reach conclusions about a particular gender. If you want true love to locate you, you must remain a child at heart.

If you are already trapped in one mess, simply take a walk with God and ask Him to handle it His own way. In handling it His own way, He can decide to take you out or go through it with's all for your good. Simply, let His will be done.
Something good will always come out of every bad situation if only you let God have His way.

Know when you are abused in a relationship

1. He calls every thirty minutes to check on you and ask questions like 'where are you?' 'Who are you with?' Don't be deceived into thinking it's love; that's a possessive man.

2. He asks for your social media password without giving you his

3. He wants your phone and computers without password while his stay with passwords. Get yourself to become independent of such a man. But always remember that password or no password, a smart cheat will always find a way.

4. He does everything possible to keep your friends and relatives away from you. He can even come up with lies against them just to destroy your relationship with them. Yes, he wants to have you to himself and that's when he deals with you.

5. He admires women with makeup and hair extensions but won't let you wear them.

6. He feels threatened anytime you are well dressed and going out alone.

7. He wants you not to communicate with the opposite sex even your colleagues at work.

8. He wants you to ignore customers for his call.

9. If he makes you feel that you can't survive without him, step out and show him that he needs you more than you need him. Don't be afraid, you can survive without him and there are men out there who will gladly have you.

Ladies, never allow desperation to push you into regrets. You are an adult and that man does not own you. Your relationship with him should make you fulfilled and not depressed. Never lose your individuality for anyone.

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This is heartbreaking

How many times have you failed in that business or career? How many failed relationship/marriage have you had? How many times have you failed in your ministry?
My dearest, it's not in the number of times you have failed; it's about how many times you have risen. The world has no right to keep you down. Only you can stop you. Get up and try again. The next try could be it and even if it's not, try, try, and try again. Winners don't quit. Embrace a winning attitude today.

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We all feel bad at the ignorance of Abubakar Shekau and his Boko Haram group. We can't understand why they believe the teachings of their clergymen who tell them that their god (not my God) has seven virgins for them in his kingdom for killing those they tag 'infidels', the unbelievers. They have, according to their fellow Muslims, misinterpreted the Quran.

Now, that's the power of religion. These guys are not alone in this mess; many of us, Christians, are miserable in the name of religion. Many have misinterpreted the Holy Bible. We are not different from the Almajiris who don't read their Quran with understanding. We have suddenly lost interest in the genuine word of God. The words of our 'daddies' and 'mummies' are now more important than the word of God. It's now about what GO said is true instead of what the word says. It's no longer about being in the good books of heaven; it's more about being in Daddy's good books.

I shudder at the way so many Christians have become zombies and 'mumus' all in the name of religion. Your so called prophet and miracle worker told you to be in church on a Wednesday morning when you should be out their looking for money and you leave your job to go and worship. Now, on getting to the office, you have been sacked. You gather money that doesn't belong to you, money from sales and there you go to the pastor who asked you to sow a seed of faith. You are out of job, your children are now out of school; where is your Mr. Prophet?

When you stop relating with a member who left your ministry to another just because your pastor (Daddy) indirectly said so; when you cannot eat together with another Christian because you are holy while she is not holy because of makeup and earrings; are you not blinded by religion?

When they give you handkerchief that you must use whenever you pray with the instruction that you call the God of "my daddy" seven times representing the number of times they went round before the wall of Jericho collapsed. You do this and much more for miracle to happen even when you don't know if that his god is a little god buried somewhere in the pulpit. I recently heard about one of these rogues selling the blood of Jesus in bottles to his gullible followers. They frame pictures and sell to you for thousands of Naira and you foolishly buy them; are they now your Jesus? You wear rags and nylon on the body appearing as someone with a mental case (looks like you are), dirty and stinking believing you are just few inches away from heaven; you are just a miserable human. How many times has your leader and his wife worn that rag you wear? Are you aware that it's good money for any of their relatives who got the contract?

Your family is in chaos as a result of one prayer contractor somewhere; you can no longer talk to your step-mother or in-laws all because they told you that they are behind your endless woes. Your problem is poverty of the mind. When you can no longer use doll baby, beautiful lingerie, and shiny shoes all because your prophet or prophetess told you that they are all from the marine world and you go the extent of setting your beautiful plates and cutleries on fire because of what one confused mind is telling you; I pity you.

Your husband wants you to wear lovely skirts but you choose to wear 'mama Mary' and 'Mary amaka" skirts; there is nothing attractive in you all because of religion. The poor man cannot even turn to cuddle you in bed because the hair you tie 24/7 won't let him breathe well. Tomorrow you run for prayer, looking for who to kill by fire. Your problem is you.

You were asked to leave the church building to start eating grass like the goat you are and you obey all in the name of faith even when his wife and children are not eating the grass with you; when you are about to die in the labour room and the doctor, to save your life and that of your baby, decides to cut you open but your daddy or mummy calls to tell you that you must not do that and you foolishly obey; when you have no blood and at the point of death and religion tells you never to accept blood; there is fire on the mountain.

It's more annoying to see that even graduates can no longer think with their God-given brain and discuss intellectually without shouting "judge not". I shake my big, fat head in disappointment whenever I bring up an issue which should be intellectually analyzed only for people to tell you that it is a no go area. Protestants always talk about Martin Luther who fought the clergy to make the Bible accessible to the laity. But if you look at where we are now, you will discover that we have, unconsciously, being driven back to that time.

Your pastor comes on the altar, after a revelation of his serial womanizing with church members, to tell you that the devil is fighting the church and the kingdom of God is marching on and all you can do is to shout a thunderous "Amen" and "touch not my anointed"... What is the difference between you and these brainwashed animals? You won't even set up a committee to investigate, properly, the report. Anyway, what's the point investigating when it's a one man and family business?

You can no longer think. You are a graduate and every morning you report at daddy's house to become his PA and driver with no pay. You do all these but stay hungry at the end of the month. What are you going to tell your unborn children? Many parents have sold out their daughters to mummy. She is now the "executive handbag carrier". You know it's funny to see people fighting over who mummy has to travel with for preaching. All you get is the recognition as mummy's PA. Do you think you are living? You are just existing. African pastors are really having a field day because of the impoverished minds around them. To a good number of Africans, once you worship "daddy", you are on your way to heaven.

Do you think there is any difference between you and Boko Haram? The only difference is that they kill physically while you, as a result of hatred for people in other ministries, kill on daily basis. You don't just kill others; you kill yourself too. You are not different because you have allowed religion to blind your eyes.

Who has bewitched you?

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