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Marquis “‫יהלומית‬‎” Crumpton
Attended Scottsdale Community College
Lives in Scottsdale, AZ, USA
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I haven't been in here in a long time. I have been single for a year now and been learning about myself. So, friend has been interested in me we have been taking things really slow with no expectations. I have even written out things I want and don't want in a relationship.

I am starting a new journey in my life, solo poly. I have no intentions of wanting to be married, not interested in commitment or any escalator type of relationships right now (I feel I wouldn't mind having a nesting partner later in life). I have been studying solo polyamory for a year-ish now it took me 8 months to find my answer. I feel since I left my previous relationship of 10 yrs that being tied down to another person would make me sick to my stomach.

So, it's a combination of solo poly but a practice of relationship anarchy as well. I have very limited dating experience, it seems so natural for people to say what they want and need in relationships whereas I came from a background of being told you don't have wants and needs.

I have always seem to end up in abusive relationships seems like that still follows me. I haven't practiced poly since 09 and getting back into is a challenge for me. I do want to create healthy, deep meaningful relationships with someone where there's intelligent conversations and of course sex. I guess I got somewhat of what I want and need in this new journey I have been evaluating.

My friend said you are making it more complicated than you need to be. I do agree, my thoughts are just all over the map like always never consistent which is why I started writing this out again to see it black and white. I do agree it shouldn't be hard to say this is what I want/don't want/need/don't need in relationships. In my mind, I feel so stuck like I am not sure of myself it feels I don't trust myself to know myself if you know what I mean.

He is also poly doesn't want commitment wants to enjoy relationships with different people, doesn't want marriage again, no kids, already has two grown kids. I have this fear of expressing what I want and need which is not easy to break. So, I don't know maybe someone can offer some advice I am just venting. Anyone ever had trouble in their life of not knowing their own wants and needs?
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+Toni Hilton No prob. I had an interest in another male friend who has 4 kids all under 16 I am like yea how would that work? This one older woman is interested in me we hung out one hang out doesn't tell me anything if the person is someone I want to date or not.

That's good you are enjoying women, I don't mind dating men I just want less of them in my life and more women in my life.
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Shut up you marquis gayshit.You want a pick up a fight huh.
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My name is Marquis and yes I am a female. I am originally from CA but living in AZ - hate it here!!! 

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Administration: Analyzed books for damages such as tears, stains, bends, missing pages, binding, ISBN serial numbers Maintained an inventory of scanned and organized books by type, size, genre, volume, encyclopedias, year, ISBN serial number, magazines, classics, antiques, ready to list online, teacher and educational books, mass paperback Scanned and organized educational books for teachers only Examined mass paperback books by authors’ last name Helped clear the docks and bring in books daily Collected books by 2003 and newer, computer books 2005 and newer, and magazines 2011 and newer Utilize computer for scanning, typing, and sorting books Discarded old, damaged books to either Phoenix Public Library bin, 25 cent cart, children’s book cart, free cart, or trash bin Sort magazines placing them in appropriate categories Searched books for genre, copyright year, and descriptions Validated books by using a bookend for shelving Updated information on books leftover to either be scanned, sorted, shelved, sent to Phoenix Public Library, don’t scan items, or consult managers to look at the carts Pushed a cart of books to another backroom for the employees to shelve Placed coded stickers on books based on the month for selling Categorized DVDs, VHS, CDs, audiobooks to shelf Arranged DVDs, VHS, CDs, and audiobooks on shelves for selling Displayed labels on shelves or piles of books for review Determined whether books or media should be kept in inventory Reviewed books for selling or discarded using my judgment Collected popular books to be sorted in overflow shelf needing to be shelved in its appropriate shelf Compiled a set of medical books for volunteer to send them overseas Customer Service Consulted managers on books being antiques, classics, volumes, or a set of encyclopedias Helped volunteers unload carts of books Guided a volunteer by helping them sort and scan books to their appropriate shelves Trained new volunteers on the rules, book sorting and scanning to appropriate shelves, sending old books to the Phoenix Public Library, 25 cent cart, check and clear the docks daily, consulting managers or employees for help, or putting books in the free cart Accomplished filing out books in certain categories for sorting and shelving Obtained a gift certificate for National Volunteer Week Assisted customer on finding a set of DVDs Recommended with employee on gathering a cart for a set of volumes to be considered selling Financial Achieved 30 percent success rate of ready to list books online Created ideas with employee to managers on book sales Specified issues with managers regarding the loss of money on popular books and genres needing to be retrieved and sold on a weekly basis
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Boyfriend and I love this place 3rd time coming here in a long time plus we'd love to come back more often. Love their vegan burgers and drinks! Shocked they are selling beer plus they changed the look of the place too.
Public - a year ago
reviewed a year ago
Boyfriend and I have been to this park a lot we love it! Love how there's a dock that you can just walk on and watch the lake. I like how it is hilly and very green great place for a picnic, exercise, etc.
Public - a year ago
reviewed a year ago
Bland food, disgusting, the food was probably sitting for a few hours, cold chicken workers don't clean the tables after customers leave, bathrooms look like a dump, and I'm surprised that there aren't any roaches crawling on the walls and living on the food 24/7 at this place. Not worth your time and money. The employees are rude when you ask them to clean anything when you try to sit down at the only open table that just happens to be dirty. By the way, this is no longer Hometown Buffet. Restaurant has changed names a couple of times already. First it was J.J. Morris for a few months, and now it's known as J. J. North. However, it's still just as disgusting, if not worse when it was still Hometown Buffet.
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Public - 2 years ago
reviewed 2 years ago
18 reviews
Great place, so beautiful would love to go there again.
Public - a year ago
reviewed a year ago
I do like how the place is big and everything. There are employees who I like that are nice especially the guy Dude (not sure if that's his real name probably not) as I haven't had a problem with anyone yet. I do agree how it is slow processing transactions and the problem with their rural carriers delivering mail into my neighborhood is pathetic! They never last in my neighborhood, sticking the wrong mail into other people's boxes, never knocking on my door if I or my parents have a package just let it sit on the ground until I get home and find it, etc. This is still an ongoing problem since we moved to AZ in 96 and they got excuses as to why they can't deliver the mail which I am going to have a talk with their supervisor next week.
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Public - 2 years ago
reviewed 2 years ago
Boyfriend and I went to this location last week - first time going to that location. We had a great experience and the manager (female) was really nice and our order came up to our table right away! Someone in here said go to Mcdonalds, why? Why is it every burger joint review I read someone says go to McD's because it is cheaper? I'd prefer a burger cooked in peanut oil or olive oil than transfat oil and god who knows what else McD's puts in there! If that's the burger you prefer, then keep going to McD's for a lousy, unhealthy, rGHBT burger! We love their smash fries and their sweet potatoes fries, mmmm mmm good!! For almost $20 (two burgers, fries, and a small drink), that isn't too bad.
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