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Are You Listening?
The objective is to become an accomplished listener, which is the other half of being a good communicator.   If you only talk and don’t listen, you’re a blowhard, no matter how clever your words are.    Listening leads to knowing the person you’re communica...

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Why You're Clueless
Let’s be fair, most men never had any kind of an effective sexual mentor in their formative years to provide the elusive Rosetta Stone of Women. Some had an evolved sister or mother sit down and try to explain what relating with girls would be all about. Wh...

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On the Radio......
Click the link to listen to my interview with NY Times bestselling author Christy Whitman - you can catch me at the 50:39 point in the video....

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The Dark Side of Being Nice.....
Unfortunately, there are many men out
there who are traveling this path, repeatedly being a decent fellow, and
continuing to not get the attention they desire. The seeds of anger are now
planted. They don’t get their desired result, and sulk to friends abou...

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A Few Words on Christmas......
This is the time of year where there's a lot of activity and a lot of expectation - a very challenging time when it comes to giving and receiving.  It has been said the the true gift in Christmas is being able to effectively receive from others - whether it...

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Nice Try, Mr. Not So Nice Guy.......
While you are wrangling
with the balance between Nice Guy and Bad Boy, there is still the problem on
the nice side of the spectrum that we have already briefly examined.  Let's look
at it in more detail. By initially establishing
a relationship based on fri...

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The Nice and The Bad
It’s no secret that women want to have a nice guy in their
life. A fellow that they can rely on - shows up on time, calls on the phone
regularly, listens, brings flowers, is caring and so on. The all-around Mr.
Nice Guy. Most decent males, unless they grew ...

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What Women Really Want......
Although the subject of
what a woman really wants in a man can be written about and discussed from now until
doomsday, our focus is on one particular aspect within this subject. If you
know this fact, and then learn how to become adept within it, well – I c...

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The Friendship Trap
There’s nothing wrong with
acts of chivalry and kindness without expectation of recompense. However, if
your initial efforts at trying to gain the favors of a fair maiden involve
fixing machines, appliances, switches or other complicated broken things;
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