I live by a set of 3 rules:
1. Commit a random act of kindness for a complete stranger daily.
2. Do something socially unacceptable at least once a day.
3. Step out of your comfort zone at least once a day.
Since the winter of 2007 I have been redesigning my life. I have achieved many successes and experienced some disappointments, but I have learned through it all.
I went from being unemployed with zero social life to working for wildly successful startups, becoming a professional dating coach, being a successful professional athlete, becoming friends with celebrity role models, and meeting the girl of my dreams. I've learned that our greatest limitation is our own mind. Stop being realistic, it's a drag!