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Erica Johnson
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Hi Erica, came here from Ify's vlog and I absolutely love both of you. Now I am in a long distance relationship and my man is working and studying so we don't really have time to talk, this has been bothering me and I don't know what do, please help me.
Hey! Thank you, I appreciate the love :)   Being in a long distance relationship can be conflicting although not impossible. You are two individuals in different places with different schedules and obligations. The common denominator here is that you are in...
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Hello young lady this is my very first time visiting your blog! So I am going to keep it simple. I need some advice. I am really attracted to a new female friend. I usually don't have trouble talking to females but for some reason when it comes to this particular young lady, I seem to choke up and start to feel like butterflies are in my stomach...I guess it’s because of my insecurities due to my current lifestyle but I really want her to get to know me, without scaring her away!!!! She shows me attention but I'm not sure if it’s just friendly, business, or possibly relationship attention! I'm confused on what's the next step I should take with the young lady. Can you help me with this situation?
Well hello, thank you for visiting and asking a question! I’ll try my best to help. So you met a new friend, whom you are attracted to and you want her to get to know you without scaring her away. My first thought, is why you think you will scare her away? ...
Hello young lady this is my very first time visiting your blog! So I am going to keep it simple. I need some advice. I am really attracted to a new female friend. I usually don't have trouble talking to females but for some reason when it comes to this particular young lady, I seem to choke up and start to feel like butterflies are in my stomach...I guess it’s because of my insecurities due to my current lifestyle but I really want her to get to know me, without scaring her away!!!! She shows me attention but I'm not sure if it’s just friendly, business, or possibly relationship attention! I'm confused on what's the next step I should take with the young lady. Can you help me with this situation?
Well hello, thank you for visiting and asking a question! I’ll try my best to help. So you met a new friend, whom you are attracted to and you want her to get to know you without scaring her away. My first thought, is why you...
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Hi Erica, I have big issue at hand and I'm slightly embarrassed by it. Well, here it goes... I can't get over my ex. They were the first person I ever actually been "in love" with. It has been 2-3 years now & I still think about them. Either if something reminds me of them or it just gets to the point that I end up thinking about them. I promise you it's not by choice I try sooooo hard not to & I always fail. It hits me even worse at night before bed. I prayed hard on it every night to try & make it stop because it's mentally painful & emotionally draining. She has moved on & I’m trying to figure out why can’t I? Do you know of any methods or ways I can't start using to help me forget? Or just ease the pain in general?
Hey! Thank you for stopping by. No need to feel embarrassed, this is completely anonymous. It’s so anonymous that I don’t even know who writes to me. Also rest assured that you aren't the only one with big issues such as this one! Ok so, can’t get over an e...
Hi Erica, I have big issue at hand and I'm slightly embarrassed by it. Well, here it goes... I can't get over my ex. They were the first person I ever actually been "in love" with. It has been 2-3 years now & I still think about them. Either if something reminds me of them or it just gets to the point that I end up thinking about them. I promise you it's not by choice I try sooooo hard not to & I always fail. It hits me even worse at night before bed. I prayed hard on it every night to try & make it stop because it's mentally painful & emotionally draining. She has moved on & I’m trying to figure out why can’t I? Do you know of any methods or ways I can't start using to help me forget? Or just ease the pain in general?
Hey! Thank you for stopping by. No need to feel embarrassed, this is completely anonymous. It’s so anonymous that I don’t even know who writes to me. Also rest assured that you aren't the only one with big issues such as this...
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Hi Erica, I have big issue at hand and I'm slightly embarrassed by it. Well, here it goes... I can't get over my ex. They were the first person I ever actually been "in love" with. It has been 2-3 years now & I still think about them. Either if something reminds me of them or it just gets to the point that I end up thinking about them. I promise you it's not by choice I try sooooo hard not to & I always fail. It hits me even worse at night before bed. I prayed hard on it every night to try & make it stop because it's mentally painful & emotionally draining. She has moved on & I’m trying to figure out why can’t I? Do you know of any methods or ways I can't start using to help me forget? Or just ease the pain in general?
Hey! Thank you for stopping by. No need to feel embarrassed, this is completely anonymous. It’s so anonymous that I don’t even know who writes to me. Also rest assured that you aren't the only one with big issues such as this one! Ok so, can’t get over an e...
Hi Erica, I have big issue at hand and I'm slightly embarrassed by it. Well, here it goes... I can't get over my ex. They were the first person I ever actually been "in love" with. It has been 2-3 years now & I still think about them. Either if something reminds me of them or it just gets to the point that I end up thinking about them. I promise you it's not by choice I try sooooo hard not to & I always fail. It hits me even worse at night before bed. I prayed hard on it every night to try & make it stop because it's mentally painful & emotionally draining. She has moved on & I’m trying to figure out why can’t I? Do you know of any methods or ways I can't start using to help me forget? Or just ease the pain in general?
Hey! Thank you for stopping by. No need to feel embarrassed, this is completely anonymous. It’s so anonymous that I don’t even know who writes to me. Also rest assured that you aren't the only one with big issues such as this...
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Hello, 1st let me thank you for all that you do to help others. You are a blessing! My spouse and I have been married or 20+ years. We have had many ups and downs as in any marriage. At one point I felt very un loved and lonely which I did make known. This was a huge hurdle because my spouse verified the love wasn't where it should be. For many years we rode a roller coaster of highs and lows. We have a ton of history together & a beautiful family. The last year or so has been very trying for both of us. A lot of eye opening on both parts. After a lot of talking and tears we agree that we love each other however neither of us are in love with the other. Now by no means I do not feel it should be romance and all that "new love" feeling all the time I understand "life" changes things as it has changed the both of us and I feel we grew apart. Can a marriage last knowing we are no longer in love with each other? I do not want to have a failed marriage. I also do not want us to stay married out of habit or fear. I feel we should be in love. I see it as you can love anyone but to be in love that is something different. My spouse feels otherwise. What is your thoughts? Again thank you!
Hello! Thank you for your kind words and for stopping by :). 20+ years is a long time and rightfully so full of highs and lows. I think that it’s great that you're able to highlight the positives yet are aware of barriers and have already communicated this ...
Hello, 1st let me thank you for all that you do to help others. You are a blessing! My spouse and I have been married or 20+ years. We have had many ups and downs as in any marriage. At one point I felt very un loved and lonely which I did make known. This was a huge hurdle because my spouse verified the love wasn't where it should be. For many years we rode a roller coaster of highs and lows. We have a ton of history together & a beautiful family. The last year or so has been very trying for both of us. A lot of eye opening on both parts. After a lot of talking and tears we agree that we love each other however neither of us are in love with the other. Now by no means I do not feel it should be romance and all that "new love" feeling all the time I understand "life" changes things as it has changed the both of us and I feel we grew apart. Can a marriage last knowing we are no longer in love with each other? I do not want to have a failed marriage. I also do not want us to stay married out of habit or fear. I feel we should be in love. I see it as you can love anyone but to be in love that is something different. My spouse feels otherwise. What is your thoughts? Again thank you!
Hello! Thank you for your kind words and for stopping by :). 20+ years is a long time and rightfully so full of highs and lows. I think that it’s great that you're able to highlight the positives yet are aware of barriers and...
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Hi, I know this is probably random. I’m really close to my aunt and we talk a lot especially her confiding in me. But at the same time there's boundaries because of course she's way older than I am. I help her with Online apps and things of that nature that asks for personal information. Recently she made a comment saying "you hang around me too much". Being me I was like oh I'm sorry. But we both laughed it off with a hug. I don't know if I'm being paranoid but is that something I should take personally or if it's something I should take note of and try not to be in her space so often. Ps: we see each other everyday because we live together and I'm Haitian so I guess culture does play a role in the boundary aspect. Thank you so much. Love what you are doing by the way. I aspire to be like you one day, you do great work I once saw a video of you on your friends YouTube channel Ifyyvonne
I love that you and your aunt have such a special relationship. It’s nice to have connections with those that are older to provide us with wisdom along the way. I’m not sure what your aunt may have meant by her comment. Maybe she thinks you are beginning to...
Hi, I know this is probably random. I’m really close to my aunt and we talk a lot especially her confiding in me. But at the same time there's boundaries because of course she's way older than I am. I help her with Online apps and things of that nature that asks for personal information. Recently she made a comment saying "you hang around me too much". Being me I was like oh I'm sorry. But we both laughed it off with a hug. I don't know if I'm being paranoid but is that something I should take personally or if it's something I should take note of and try not to be in her space so often. Ps: we see each other everyday because we live together and I'm Haitian so I guess culture does play a role in the boundary aspect. Thank you so much. Love what you are doing by the way. I aspire to be like you one day, you do great work I once saw a video of you on your friends YouTube channel Ifyyvonne
I love that you and your aunt have such a special relationship. It’s nice to have connections with those that are older to provide us with wisdom along the way. I’m not sure what your aunt may have meant by her comment. Maybe...
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Hi, if you personally were cheated on, would you want to know?
Hi, thank you for stopping by! So the topic of cheating…let’s
get right into it. If you suspect that you were cheated on, I think that
communication between you and your partner is so necessary. It’s not good to
assume and it will cause a lot of stress if y...
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Hello I'll first start by saying how much I love your forum. And the fact that you take your time out to give wise advice to people that need it. It is very much appreciated especially by me. My boyfriend has a friend who is in a relationship with his brother who is married but his wife is out of town. This girl who is my boyfriend's friend is also in a relationship with her boyfriend who is also out of town. My boyfriend’s friend and his brother hook up and start sleeping together. Long story short they end the relationship and the girl, my boyfriend’s friend start blaming my boyfriend for letting his brother take advantage of her. She's trying not to let her boyfriend find out that she cheated but yet she blames my boyfriend continuously and went ahead to tell him she'll hurt him. Couple of days ago I get a call on my phone of a lady accusing me that I'm involved with her husband and she's cursing me out, I was confused so I hung up only to find out later on that it was my boyfriend's friend. My boyfriend says not to call her back, he apologized to me I have a feeling she's not gonna stop at just that and I don't want to be the one she hurts to get back at him (my boyfriend) What do I do I'm really trying to stay away from the whole situation and be calm about it
Hey! Thank you for your kind words, I really appreciate you!
Wow, this one is loaded. Your boyfriend is so much involved. His brother and
his close girl friend? This is sticky and messy and I’m sorry that you’re
caught up in it. I’m not sure what this woman...
Hello I'll first start by saying how much I love your forum. And the fact that you take your time out to give wise advice to people that need it. It is very much appreciated especially by me. My boyfriend has a friend who is in a relationship with his brother who is married but his wife is out of town. This girl who is my boyfriend's friend is also in a relationship with her boyfriend who is also out of town. My boyfriend’s friend and his brother hook up and start sleeping together. Long story short they end the relationship and the girl, my boyfriend’s friend start blaming my boyfriend for letting his brother take advantage of her. She's trying not to let her boyfriend find out that she cheated but yet she blames my boyfriend continuously and went ahead to tell him she'll hurt him. Couple of days ago I get a call on my phone of a lady accusing me that I'm involved with her husband and she's cursing me out, I was confused so I hung up only to find out later on that it was my boyfriend's friend. My boyfriend says not to call her back, he apologized to me I have a feeling she's not gonna stop at just that and I don't want to be the one she hurts to get back at him (my boyfriend) What do I do I'm really trying to stay away from the whole situation and be calm about it
Hey! Thank you for your kind words, I really appreciate you! Wow, this one is loaded. Your boyfriend is so much involved. His brother and his close girl friend? This is sticky and messy and I’m sorry that you’re caught up in ...
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Hi Erica, I'm a woman in my late 20's, I'm finishing school, and I also have a part time job. I am in a complicated relationship and I feel lonely a lot. I feel like I don't have much of a life since I've moved away from all of my close friends, not to mention they are starting families of their own. Any advice on what to do about my loneliness?
Hello! Thank you for your question. Let's get right to it! So being in school and having a part time job takes up enough time as it is. Let's face it, if you weren't in school, you would probably prefer to work full time. In school you have time spent in cl...
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