Profile

Cover photo
Maggie Faid
Works at Crotched Mountain Rehabilitation Center
Lives in Hillsborough, NH
410 followers|307,905 views
AboutPostsPhotosYouTubeReviews

Stream

Maggie Faid

Shared publicly  - 
 
 
I know several of you are interested in this topic. She's got a great list of resources.
I'm just recently back from Bouchercon 2016 in New Orleans, and the day before B'con began, Sisters in Crime presented its SinC Into Great Writing workshop, as usual. This year as part of SinC's emphasis on diversity that beg...
View original post
1
Add a comment...

Maggie Faid

Shared publicly  - 
 
Sass.
18
Darren Gagne's profile photoTim Barry's profile photoPaul S's profile photoJesse Perry's profile photo
7 comments
 
Dangerous.
Add a comment...

Maggie Faid

Shared publicly  - 
 
Photos from Crossover, those which I was able to salvage from the weird misty horrible lighting of doom. I did a lot of minor reframing edits and light concentration to get rid of the diffused lighting of the mist. The bold area white sky was bleaching everyone to deaaaath.

Please only tag yourself in photos. If you see something you'd prefer taken down, let me know.
30
Melissa Carr (Eydís Þorgrímsdóttir)'s profile photoMaggie Faid's profile photoMichael Coleman's profile photo
6 comments
 
Ok cool.
Add a comment...

Maggie Faid

Shared publicly  - 
 
Tiny dog is tiny and clingy. And asleep half upside down and oozing out of my lap.
6
Add a comment...

Maggie Faid

Shared publicly  - 
 
I don't know if I'm just a grump or if I just value yarn and making things for humans to wear too much, but I really hate yarnbombing.

The yarn goes gross and gray after a week, and I would really rather contribute baby hats at a hospital or make chemo caps for people who need them.
6
Melissa Carr (Eydís Þorgrímsdóttir)'s profile photoMaggie Faid's profile photo
4 comments
 
Discussing this with a friend tonight. She replied, "Man, it really is just the knitter equivalent to drawing dicks on stuff."
Add a comment...

Maggie Faid

Shared publicly  - 
 
Got a link sent my way today. Managed to make it all the way to the end before I started bawling. It was a good kind of crying, though, in that it felt mending instead of rough and terrible feeling.

Now and then I feel a kind of emptiness where a piece of my heritage is supposed to be. I have family, and I have a father, but I have no connection to that history and life by blood. Male biomatter contributor was adopted, and has refused (even after his sister had three kinds of cancer) to unlock their shared history. I haven't talked to MBC in almost two decades, and I don't expect I'll ever know where I came from. I think after he's dead, I'll be able to look it up with the state. 

I have a rich background on my mother's side, with photos and information and tons of history. But where the family tree should link on the left side is just a large question mark. And I think if that's the cost of never seeing MBC again, I'm okay with that.
3
Add a comment...

Maggie Faid

Shared publicly  - 
 
Today. Is. Fired.

In other news, the next cow-orker who befouls the washing machine to the point where I have to wear full body protective gear to clean it is going to get stuffed in there.
2
Hillary King Chapin's profile photoPeter Brillinger's profile photoMarney Brillinger's profile photo
4 comments
 
+Peter Brillinger​ - had to happen sometime, Captain Bad Idea. ;)
Add a comment...

Maggie Faid

Shared publicly  - 
 
So, to recap. 11 hour shift followed by 8 hour physical training inservice, then home to get into an online brawl with some frapping codswallop who uses reductive reasoning to derail a conversation and belittle my experience.

Also, a pinched nerve in my back.

I am so done with today. I'm not sure there's enough caffeine in the world to get me through tonight. And if there is, I'm pretty sure it'll make me sick.

We're going to need a bigger boat.
2
Hillary King Chapin's profile photoJesse Perry's profile photoMarney Brillinger's profile photoMaggie Faid's profile photo
4 comments
 
"With your phone number!"
Add a comment...

Maggie Faid

Shared publicly  - 
 
Hmm. Might need a crossover type patch.
Dystopia Rising's new Gender Pronoun patches are both true-to-immersion and respectful towards its players. The LARP community responds.
1
Add a comment...

Maggie Faid

Shared publicly  - 
 
Best gift.

(Plus gay agenda tee shirt complete with taco Tuesday. Best birthday gifts. +Marney Brillinger is the bomb.)
14
Marney Brillinger's profile photo
 
Glad you like them, my dear. :)
Add a comment...

Maggie Faid

Shared publicly  - 
 
Heredity stuff has been a theme lately. Extensive research into stuff I have zero qualifying education for reveals that my genetics will basically tell me crap all about my ethnic and regional background.

Unless I could get testing done on a paternal male relative, which isn't going to happen for a vast number of reasons, there's no real way to get info. In a way this is comforting, since being female means I'm literally less related to him than I could be. At least, that's my takeaway.

I have however learned two things.

1. I am pretty positive that 23 and Me is an irresponsible and unethical scam.

2. I'm pretty sure that when she reads this, +Marney Brillinger will agree so emphatically that I will hear it in Hillsboro, NH.

Which is all the more impressive since I think she's still in Mexico right now.


4
Heather Hooper's profile photoMaggie Faid's profile photo
2 comments
 
Keeping in mind that I am an utter layperson in this particular subcategory who may be schooled shortly by someone with a Master's degree in genetic counseling...

In short, ethically, it seems shady as hell. I can attest from working in healthcare on and off that you never, ever deliver results via the mail, you always have someone there to give them straight answers and prognosis information.

Also, everything they offer you information about is strictly carrier info. They don't tell you if you have the active gene for breast cancer - they tell you if you're a carrier, which is a fantastic way to sell more tests to the rest of the family. They do that to skirt the law on what you can tell someone without offering counseling and support, and it preys on insecure worried people who want to become parents.

And most of all, it really bugged the shit out of me that they hid the information about women getting less information from their testing than men do on a tiny subset page. I mean, obviously, it isn't a surprise to me because I have absorbed a fair amount of information about chromosomes from said Master's Degree Haver, but it took me some thorough searching to find it on their website, which means that it's probably off the beaten track on purpose.

I mean, yes, the research is clearly out there in a decently advanced high school science class these days. Women do not inherent haplogroup information from men because they don't have Y chromosome, that makes sense. But to the average person who went to school before 1998 or so, that information is really spotty and requires digging. 

So you pay $200 to get information that doesn't actually tell you anything about your personal risks, they hide that women get less info on an off-the-track subpage, and as far as I can tell the haplogroup information is spotty as hell, too. I mean, I'm not saying it's the worst thing I've ever run into, but it's pretty scammy, or at least, scammy enough that I won't give them my money. 
Add a comment...

Maggie Faid

Shared publicly  - 
 
Every now and then I'm so sure the world is based off the Palladium system, because I might have "drink liquid" capped out at 97%, but I still manage to hit that 3% when I least expect it.
8
Paul O'Connell's profile photo
 
How long is your O.C.C. Skill list? It's not a palladium game unless you have spent 2 hours writing all of them down :)
Add a comment...
Collections Maggie is following
Work
Employment
  • Crotched Mountain Rehabilitation Center
    Residential Counselor II, 2014 - present
Basic Information
Gender
Female
Story
Tagline
Gamer, feminist killjoy, virago.
Introduction
I LARP, I video game, I craft just about anything I can sit down long enough to learn to make. I especially love knitting and crocheting, and anything with chain mail or scale mail.
Bragging rights
Published (4 times), featured in the It Gets Better Project book, entirely too bendy in unfortunate and uncomfortable ways, once ran into a bench and permanently dented my leg.
Places
Map of the places this user has livedMap of the places this user has livedMap of the places this user has lived
Currently
Hillsborough, NH
Links
Twilight is a great place, and I've been to quite a few. The reviewer who said a ring tattoo 'fell off' is an idiot who never did even a whit of research - anything on hands or feet is prone to wearing when one uses their hands for anything at all. If a scab fell off and took the tattoo with it, then it wasn't properly cared for at ALL. Twilight rocks, and shouldn't be blamed for some moron's user error.
Quality: ExcellentAppeal: ExcellentService: Excellent
Public - 4 years ago
reviewed 4 years ago
1 review
Map
Map
Map