This was really not an issue in my family…when my sister and I were younger my parents owned a bar where Thursday, Friday & Saturday they had strippers come in for a little night time fun. They also had the best bachelor parties ever! Sometimes we helped our mom make the naughty cakes! So far every boyfriend I have had thinks this is really cool & they feel a bit less uneasy about the sex subject. The last one felt it was his duty to have a 1 man mission to find something sexually that would shock me. About 3 years in, he came across some pooping videos. That shocked me, my jaw hit the floor…then I felt like vomiting. Gross..I mean, who? Why? Just really disgusting! Hummm…I don’t recommend it!